I was looking for this thread the other day but I couldn't find it. Don't be ashamed! We've done it three times in the past seven months. NOT GOOD but we just can't seem to find the time. We had a quickie a couple days ago when the kids were still sleeping in the morning but it's hard to relax when you know your kids might come running in at any moment. Have any of you seen that show on Lifetime "Seven Days of Sex"? I was going to try to get DH on board with me to try that and see if maybe we could get our spark back by forcing ourselves to find time. It works for other people and I really need to reconnect with him. I'm too young for this crap.