We live in an upstairs apartment, with 9 months left on the lease. We have a new neighbor below us that just moved in 2 weeks ago. She does laundry at 11 or 12 at night every night and with my bedroom window closed I can smell strong fabric softener fumes! It's making me sick to even think about it because I sleep with my 17 month old son and he's breathing that crap in. Even when I shoved a blanket in the window sill I could still smell it. I couldn't sleep last night because of it and have had a headache and chest ache for 2 days now. I seriously put duct tape around most of the window to try to help it, my husband can't smell anything ever and is gonna think I'm nuts for doing that...but I don't care.
I haven't even met her yet so I don't know how to approach this. It's so bad I wanna have my husband talk to her, since he's met her and is better with confrontation. I have mild asthma and allergies too :(. Any advice?