How do you reconnect with you spouse in the evenings?
My daughter recently started going to sleep at a reasonable hour (7:30-8) and my husband and I have no clue how to connect with each other during this time besides watching TV (which sometimes leads us to chat). The last week we have spent with one of us on the computer and the other reading, or one reading and the other playing Wii. I have told him that I feel like we need some type of ritual to connect with each other at night, but we have not really come up with anything (and he just looks at my blankly). I'm sure the underlying tensions has something to do with it as we've been fighting more the last week or two, but I feel like if we had a ritual (like my friend who says her and her husband massage each others feet every night) it would help us reconnect every night.
Didn't really know where to post this but I'm a stay-at-home-mom, so thought this might be a good forum for it...
So, please share with me any rituals you have that work for you! Thanks!