We are taking the plunge . . . Slowly! And I would love so much to have some btdt or planning to get started folks to commiserate with. I have been feeling like it's really necessary for a while now, and I'm taking steps to get there, basically planning on going in reverse down the stages til we get to intro and then back out again as healing allows.
Anyway, I know so little about how it pans out in the everyday REAL nitty gritty, so I'd love some insight. In fact, I read on a blog some folks starting intro virtually together! That would be awesome!