What does a typical night in your house look like? How strict are you about your child's bedtime routine? Please include bedtime and your child's age.
Our DS is almost 16 months. We usually eat dinner around 6:00 and play a little. Then daddy gives him a bath (except on Fridays) and gets his pajamas on. When he's ready for bed, I put him back in the high chair and feed him some multigrain oatmeal made with coconut milk (this has taken us from the 1st to 4th percentile in 3 weeks). When he's full, we go into his bedroom, dim the lights, and turn on some white noise. We do whatever he wants for about 15 minutes, which usually means some less physical play and reading. At some point we brush his teeth while reading a book. Between 7:30 and 7:45 he will go pick up his Boppy (if not I'll ask him if he wants "milk please"). Then we'll quickly pick up, turn off the lights, and nurse. I rock or walk him until he's almost asleep, and then put him down around 8:00 pm. I wish we could get him to sleep earlier, but DH doesn't get home until close 6:00, so this let's them have more time together.
I'd say we follow this routine about 95% of the time.