i am a single mom who shares custody but am never apart from my dd for more than a day. we do 2 alternate nights with daddy and the rest with me. sometimes he has her for 3 nights. depending on if he has anything planned with her during the weekend.
dd is 9. she has been with me everywhere since i either could not afford or find a good babysitter. when i say everywhere i mean that - even meditation groups as well as my school.
its not that i cant part with her.
i do and enjoy my time alone to catch up or just get a breather.
however there are moments, moments esp. when i am doing something that i know dd will enjoy and i miss her being there. and it becomes really hard for me to enjoy myself.
can you relate? or am i the crazy one here.
but there are moments when out of the blue i really miss my dd.