So I did a search and found lots of old threads, have tried many suggestions and we're still in a pickle. Any thoughts appreciated!
I went back to work when DD was 8 weeks old. I'd made several attempts to give her a bottle before then (leaving her with DH and a bottle of pumped milk) but she always slept through the entire time (including one time I was gone for 3+ hours) so she never actually got to try the bottle until I went back to work. And of course she hated it.
Luckily I have an extremely flexible job where I don't physically have to be there for a lot of it, so I have been rushing in to the office, doing the things I need to be there to do, and then rushing home. I'm typically gone about 3-4 h at a time. DD screams at DH until I come home. We've tried lots of different nipples and found one she seems to hate less than the others but she still won't take much - the max has been 2 oz but usually it's less than 1/2 oz, and she screams intermittently the whole time. My poor DH. :(
She's now over 3 months old and I am beginning to think she is never going to take it. This is really bad for my work - yeah my job is flexible but I am really not nearly as productive at home as I would be if I could stay at work, and eventually it is going to catch up with me. Thanks for any suggestions!