Exciting!! I am not sure how much and in what forms my TM manifested this year (still working I know). However, I have to say I've come a long way in terms of understanding since making my first TM last year.
I am very excited for this year, but I have a declutter/prep related question....
--I was unsure, but somehwat wanted to TTC and put it on my TM from last year, but I am very conflicted about career which I am trying to reboot and whether I want to try and concieve. Heart says pregnancy, mind says you need to focus on money.
Anyway, so I've been clearing my 3 yr old daughter's closet and mostly donating old clothes, but I also feel I should keep all the stuff that could be used for the second baby if I did get pregnant by any chance, especially stuff that isn't gender specific.
First thought that comes is, I should chuck it all away, and take pleasure in buying new things when/if second one arrives. Hanging onto stuff is only going to want make me pregnant so I can use and finish the stuff! This is a big concern, especially, because I have a lot of her stuff, and toys, etc....and takes up a lot of space in a 3 room apartment which we are sharing with my parents in law... Logically I should organize and keep some of the stuff. The heart says, you want a boy next anyway, just buy new things.. But then mind says you don't have a lot of money to spare to buy new things,, save what you can.....especially what if you have another girl....a lot of it could be re-used.
I know I should be looking more inward, I feel very lost right now...Intuition and logic are completely mixing... :(
Looking forward to everyone's juicy input, Tracy I hope you too have something to say :)
Thanks for letting me share...
PS. Mind and Heart concur that if I had a decent job right now that paid sufficiently well, I would probably be trying really hard to get pregnant..But which comes first :(