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8 yr old DD refusing ALL animal products

post #1 of 8
Thread Starter 

Help!

No idea what to do!

I am a terrible cook to begin with, most foods we eat are very basic, plain foods; fruit, vegies, grains, eggs, meats. Any sauces or embellishments tend to come from a can or store bought jar.

DD will not back down.

I only have a very basic understanding of proper nutrition and very little spare time to research this properly.

Any and all help from healthy, well researched vegans is very much appreciated!

post #2 of 8

Here's a book that might help: http://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Vegan-Complete-Adopting-Plant-Based/dp/1570671036/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1327007568&sr=8-1

 

I've been a vegetarian since 1984. The first hint is don't try and feed her a meat and potato diet without meat. We do a lot of one pot dinners. Maybe veggie curry over brown rice. We like soups. Brown rice pasta with sauce. We use cashews on pasta where we used to use cheese. 

 

My daughter does eggs, but otherwise is vegan. I thought it would be hard to give up dairy, but for me it wasn't. Like I said we do raw cashews, about a pound a week. Since we have a gluten free household I cook a lot with almond flour--http://www.elanaspantry.com/

 

The dairy free milks are all fortified with B12, calcium, etc. As a matter of fact, my kids had their b12 levels drawn and the doctor told us to stop giving supplements...No supplements here, just our own chickens for eggs and fortified dairy free drinks. We avoid carageenan and my daughter can't do cane sugar so I like Silk brand almond milk, Rice Dream (also Trader Joe's rice drink and Costco brand.)

 

What types of foods does she like to eat? Is it an option to get your own laying chickens?

post #3 of 8
Thread Starter 

that book looks awesome, thankyou!

 

post #4 of 8

There are many easy options out there. The important thing is that she is getting a variety of foods. Plenty of fruits and vegetables, various grains, and  protein foods such as legumes or products made from them such as beans, lentils, peas, chickpeas, tofu and tempeh, nuts and seeds.  You can add nuts and dried fruit to any hot or dry cereal. Nut butters such as almond butter, sunflower seed butter or peanut butter on a good whole grain bread. Quinoa is an excellent grain  choice, it is fast cooking and unlike most other grains it is a complete protein - You could add some finely chopped vegetables to cook along with it or use frozen veggies in a pinch. Although it is healthiest to use soaked dry beans and legumes you can used canned organic as a quick meal option - add some chili powder and chopped green onions for extra flavor. Beans and rice in a whole grain tortilla with sprouts and mixed greens are a great healthy meal. Smoothies are great too I use 3 bananas, a bag of frozen fruit, coconut milk and sometimes almond butter in mine. Veggies dipped in humus makes a great snack - you can by packaged humus at most grocery stores in the refrigerated section. Use whole wheat or brown rice pastas. Add finely chopped tofu to any sauce for extra protein - it is not necessary that tofu be cooked. Nutritional yeast (can be used as a topping on salads, pasta, rice, popcorn, steamed veggies, etc, and has a tangy somewhat cheesy flavor) supplies B vitamins an is available at most natural food stores. Veggies such as kale, broccolli, cauliflower, chard, collards, turnip greens and beet greens are good sources of calcium and other minerals.

post #5 of 8

As a vegan, I thank you for being wiling to support her in this!  Don't worry;  vegan cooking is delicious and fun, with the added benefit of not having to worry about raw centers, contaminated cutting boards, etc.  You can even eat the cookie dough.  (I know many people do, anyway, but with vegan dough, it is safe.)

Another good book is this one:

http://www.amazon.com/Raising-Vegetarian-Children-Health-Harmony/dp/0658021559

It deals with both children who have been reared as vegan or vegetarian, and those who become vegan or vegetarian on their own.  The author is a vegan.

I also recommend this website:

http://www.veganhealth.org/

And this book:

http://www.amazon.com/Vegan-Life-Everything-Healthy-Plant-Based/dp/0738214930/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1329416383&sr=1-1

The organization behind both is well-known, and is very no-nonsense about nutrition.  I found the book, especially, to be both informative and comforting.  (Comforting by not being overtly comforting, if you know what I mean;  it was very much, "Here is what you should do, and here is the research to support it.  Do it, and you'll be fine."  Nothing like, "Oh, adopt veganism and nature will bless you with health in thanks for your kindness.")

One thing to keep in mind is that all you really have to do right this minute is come up with a couple of yummy vegan meals, even if they are very simple.  Yes, you should start reading about nutrition, but you don't have to do it all today.  If you don't discover until next month that collards have more calcium than spinach, or that iron is best absorbed when eaten with something that contains vitamin C, she will still be okay.  There is nothing really hard about it, and a varied, plentiful diet often contains much of what is needed, anyway.  In the mean time, you can be reading and refining as you go along.
 

Good luck!

post #6 of 8

Here are some guidse about veg nutrition that you can read online or print out: http://www.pcrm.org/health/diets/

If you look to the right of that website you can sign up for free weekly veg recipes.

post #7 of 8

Hi Mama, 

 

You got some good resources, I just want to thank you for and encourage you to support your daughter in this. I was this child too - I completely refused animal products - and it baffled my family, but I am forever grateful that they respected my need in this matter. 

 

Now as adult, and lifelong vegetarian, I have come to understand why a child would feel the need to do this, and I think it is deeply, spiritually important. But that is another topic. So again, I thank you. 

 

Dia

 

(also - your daughter will be very healthy, healthy and whole vegan nutrition is really much easier than you can imagine :) )

post #8 of 8

Check out some ethnic cookbooks from your library.  Thai and Indian cuisines have lots of options for vegan meals.  Many of their dishes are dairy free, and any made with meat can easily be vegan by adding tofu instead.  

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