Just wondering how many of you, if any, have children with different fathers??
I have been reading a few studies recently and I have multiple baby daddies but I don't fit into the demographics of the standard woman who has such. I am white, early 30's, educated at a Masters level and employed full time. I have three children. One from my first marriage (ill advised and waaay too young at 22-her dad and I are friends now) and two from my second and I am pregnant with my partner's baby and we plan to have two more after this one and be done.
The funny thing is, I don't feel like it's abnormal. I feel like my children have all come to me how they were suppose to and I don't standardly have values that say you have to be with just one person and have children with only that person.
NOW, though, Fella and I are together and for the first time in BOTH of our lives as adults in relationships, neither of us can even visualize an end to our relationship... We both know in our cores that this is it...For the first time my babies are PLANNED, too...not just planned by me or planned to try to fix something, but planned because of mutal love and spiritual connection and the desire to produce evidence of that.
I knew at the end of my marriage that I was not done having children. my body knew it. But I never thought it would actually happen. When Fella and I got together and he asked me to have babies with him, that was another something among many somethings that made it concrete for me that a.) I should not feel ridiculue for having more than one baby daddy b.) this is what is meant to be.
I really think i am talking about two things, but they are related here so please, if my blathering is confusing, let me know where I need to fill in gaps. I am blaming pregnant brain already at 7w lol....
So any others? even if there are only two baby daddies... (I say baby daddies because I think it's funny, btw....)
Looking for a tribe of ladies I guess, who may have a similar worldview when it comes to making their babies and who they partner with.