wow, a thread about me! not sure whether i should be flattered or running scared.
yes, dado is a he, but no, "dado" is not "dad-o", it's a croatian diminutive of my given name. clever, though!
i never claimed to be female, i simply never specified my gender. why? because - as no doubt other W/SAHDs can attest - suspicion of active fathers - especially active fathers with young daughters - runs rampant from playgrounds to grocery stores to internet groups. frankly there are things said about men on MDC that would be banned in a millisecond if said about women. some had guessed and asked me directly - generally having the respect to do so via PM rather than publicly - and they can attest that i was quite open and never lied about my gender defect, asking only that it not be publicly discussed.
i came to MDC as a *parent*, not as a this or a that. there was never any danger of "stalking" or other inappropriate behavior as the Mods have known all along. i am deeply deeply hurt at the circumstances and alleged reasons for the Great Unveiling of two weeks ago, but cannot say more as that involves a moderator and would be a UA violation.