Congrats and welcome Elspeth! Another queer couple!! I may be wrong, but I think that make just the two (four) of us! I'm impressed (and a teensy bit jealous) that you guys got pregnant on the first try, but thrilled for you!! I'm the gestational parent in my relationship, and it's our first as well. We tried with a KD, but had to switch to frozen after months of it not working. But, we got pregnant on our first try with the frozen, which was awesome! Whereabouts are you living?
Oh, and if you want to be added to the EDD list, just post over on that thread.