Hi everyone! I coslept with my son (no regrets!) for four years and then my daughter was born. We've done a lot of musical beds over the past year since then and right now generally speaking my now 5 yo (son) will sleep in his bed in my room next to my bed, where I sleep with my 13 mo.
The problem is that my 5 yo wants to get in the bed with us but sometimes it is very disruptive - he moves and bounces a lot and it ends up waking my daughter up. I don't care if I get woken up but I don't want her to be up in the middle of the night for long periods because of it. But I feel bad because I don't want my son to feel rejected because he has a younger sibling who displaced him in the bed. i don't know how to address this creatively - any ideas?
On top of this, I currently am a working mom (4 days) and we all agree my son doesn't get enough time with me. So I especially don't want to seem like I am pushing him away. (I am in the process of decreasing work but that is going to take a couple of months).
Many thanks for any help!