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post #21 of 80
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Name: Forest!

 

Weeks/Days along: OMG, only 94 more days to go!  I am 26 weeks, 3 days

 

Appointments: I'm supposed to do the GD test... but am thinking of ditching it! 

 

Symptoms:I had some protein in my pee the last time, traces, so I am trying to drink a lot more H2O

 

Food: Yes!  I am drinking a lot of coconut milk all of a sudden... Eating is good these days.  Oh, if you have some indegestion/heart burn I've read eating a few almonds, chewing them up really well ... Still loving the oatmeal, too.  I think I am going to mix the baked oatmeal together tonight for breakfast tomorrow....

 

Exercise: I need to do my yoga!  And walk more this week, and continue with the little exercises I've been doing.  This past week was a huge push to get some stuff done for work, so now I have a few days off!  Today was the first day I haven't worked in awhile... and it feels nice!  bag.gif I can get off my bee hind!

 

Body changes and other milestones: bigger belly... feeling lots of kicks and squirms... :)

 

Thoughts: What am I thinking?  Doing a lot of nesting, and getting the diapers all together. Which is fun.... I see two more ikea trips in my future... I finally talked to my folks today and that went better then I thought.  My mom only said one crazy thing, and my dad sounded good. 

 

Vent: why do people ask you when you are pregnant if you are going to have another baby after this one?  Um... one baby at a time, alright people?!

 

We had a play date today and I am totally exhausted from that!  Although the kids didn't trash the house too much.  I have like 3 baskets of laundry to fold, and get everything ready for the week... so!  Off I go. 

 

I've been doing hypnobabies pretty religiously and loving it.  I think it is fine if you fall asleep, the stuff still gets into your head!  I did get a cheap mp3 player by coby--which is surprisingly cool and I am very happy with it.  I figure if I drop it in the bath or whatever during labor I won't cry too much. 

 

I've also been reading tons of birth stories, and preparing myself mentally for labor... and just happy to dream about meeting this little one!  babyf.gif


Edited by forestmushroom - 1/29/12 at 7:41pm
post #22 of 80

 

Name: Jen

Weeks/Days along: 23 weeks 4 days

Appointments: None this week, shock of all shocks!! My fetal echo went amazingly well last week, and we FINALLY saw the baby's face!!! He smiled at us!!

Symptoms: I either have a rotavirus or my "unsure if it's Crohn's disease" belly issues are flaring up. I spent Saturday night in the hospital getting IV fluids after my husband insisted that my dizziness and inability to focus were NOT good things. (He was right, but don't tell him I said that...)

Food: I think I am finally done with my blueberry addiction. I'm mostly just wanted sweet things, which for a diabetic is really not a good addiction to have. I recently had to up my basal insulin rate, but that's normal for around now. I'm now using roughly 350 units of insulin a day. For those who aren't sure... that's a hell of a lot. But that will hopefully go WAY down after this little dude comes out. 

Exercise: Yeah, still not happening. I'm not an exercising kind of person... Man I feel lazy...

Body changes and other milestones: My boobs are goign to stop growing... right? Because they're a little ridiculous right now. Belly still getting big, but people who know me really well keep commenting how I look like I'm losing weight in my face and neck 0_o

Thoughts: 

 

This will probably come up again, but I am getting so frustrated with other pregnant diabetics I talk to and their attitudes towards a vaginal birth. They act as though I'm a leper because I do not want a C-section again. (Over a year before my wound stopped opening up on its own, 9 different infections in the incision line and still no feeling in that whole region almost 9 years later... no thanks!)

 

It makes me want to rip my hair out when they talk about having to beg for a C-section or how they're afraid their baby will be too big and then they push out these 4lbs preemies because they badger their doctors into inductions really really early. (34 weeks in one case!!!) 

 

ARGH! It really makes me crazily determined to have this baby at home and prove them all wrong. Plus, the nurse I talked to Saturday night told me that if I so much as think I want no interventions, to avoid the hospital with all I've got. Being "high risk" they'll strap me to monitors the minute I'm admitted, start an IV, do 15 minute blood sugar checks, even while I'm pushing, and the baby would be taken to the NICU as soon as he's out for testing. So, pretty much everything I do not want to happen, and I'm fairly sure that fighting with people while I'm in labor is not going to go well...

 

Anyway, off my soap box. I had a ream of bad dreams last night, so I'm going to finish my water and try to get a few more minutes of sleep before my kiddo comes downstairs to wake me up for school. :D

 

post #23 of 80

Jynx - that sounds really stressful.  I had no idea people with diabetes go through all of that with pregnancy.  I wouldn't want so much intervention either...I can't imagine the instant stress factor from getting all of that the instant I walk in. 

post #24 of 80

Name:  Jenny

 

Weeks/Days along:  26 + 5

 

Appointments: Next Monday, 2/6 for glucose & midwife check-up (for some reason I was thinking it was in 2 weeks until I looked at my calendar.  Time is flying!)

 

Symptoms: Some evening heartburn, off and on hip/back/sciatica pain and leg cramps

 

Food: No major aversions right now.  Loving cheesy/salty things and breads

 

Exercise: Tried the yoga and pilates dvds I got last week and I like them.  Hoping to do them at least 3 times a week but I woke up with a cold this morning so may be a couple days.

 

Body changes and other milestones:  Sleeping with a body pillow every night now.  My side/ribs hurt a ton if I don't.  My belly is a lot bigger.  It is so hard to put socks on!  My shoes are slip on thankfully.

 

Thoughts: Enjoying the hypnobirthing class we have been taking weekly.  Excited to try the "birth breathing" instead of hard "purple pushing" this time.  I got a baby swing on clearance last week for only $20.  Super happy about that.  Also scored on a great deal for a huge 0-3 and 3-6 mo. summer clothing lot on EBay.  Feeling pretty prepared now.  :-)  Baby's movements are already so big.  Amazing how fast it changes from tiny movements to huge pushing and rolling.  Can see it from the outside sometimes now.

 

Had a really weird dream last night that baby had popped straight out of my belly and I kept trying to push him back in, telling him that he was not ready yet because he needed to get more baby fat on him (he was skinny and long).  lol

post #25 of 80

 

Name:  Maryke

Weeks/Days along:  22 Weeks and counting

Appointments:  Detaled anatomy scan on Thursday, so exited, nd a bit scared!

Symptoms: Heartburn as always, but otherwise just perfect!

Food: You guys got me on oats/oatmeal.  Also salads and veggies but not really into meat and rich foods

Exercise:  Need to work on that ASAP!

Body changes and other milestones:  Getting really big now, want to kickstart a better exersize program that I actually will keep with

Thoughts: I am so exited to hold my little miracle boy in my arms - keep thinking and overthinking everything.  Under  a bit of finantial pressure at the moment, but all shall be fine in the end I just keep telling myself.

 

we had a real hard weekend, my 23year old cousin had a bad car accedent with his JEEP and his 3 friens in it.  Topless car, no seatbelts and driving under the influence.  I wish there is something I could say, but the short version is that he killed his best friend, they had to put off the life support today.  he is in jail, as in South Africa reckless driving is seen as murder.  O dear

 

post #26 of 80


Forest, I have also really been enjoying reading positive pain free hypnobabies birth stories. It makes me feel so excited and really look forward to my birthing time :) I haven't really done much of the CDs other than the pregnancy affirmations and week one (which I did a while ago, but am starting again). Are you reading the stories from the Yahoo group, or from somewhere else? I would love to read more, so if you have good sources for them, please share.
 

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Originally Posted by forestmushroom View Post

 

I've been doing hypnobabies pretty religiously and loving it.  I think it is fine if you fall asleep, the stuff still gets into your head!  I did get a cheap mp3 player by coby--which is surprisingly cool and I am very happy with it.  I figure if I drop it in the bath or whatever during labor I won't cry too much. 

 

I've also been reading tons of birth stories, and preparing myself mentally for labor... and just happy to dream about meeting this little one!  babyf.gif



 

post #27 of 80

Can I just say that I am SICK OF WAITING and I want my little boy NOW!!!  Ugh!  This wait is too long!  :(

post #28 of 80

Corgi, I'm so sorry to hear about your cousin and his friends. My thoughts are with your family.

 

So, I forgot to mention something cool that my mom and I came up with as we talked about my birth plan, regarding pain medication. She read in one of her birthing books about a woman who came up with a code word in advance with her doula. She said, don't let me have any pain medication unless I say the code word. So, labor progresses and things get hard and she starts yelling and screaming and eventually says, "I want some drugs! Give me some drugs!"

 

Her doula says, "Ok, do you really want drugs?"

Mama, "It hurts so much, I can't take it, I need something!"

Doula, "Ok, give me the code word."

Mama, "It just is so painful, I can't take it. I'm not going to make it."

Doula, "You are doing great, you will make it. If you want drugs, give me the code word."

Mama, "Ok, it's just so hard...."

 

The woman, wouldn't give her the code word. She just needed to vent. I think I'm going to follow this model and come up with a code word for my mom. I want to leave all doors open, so I'm not going to write a birth plan that says absolutely NO drugs, even though I really, really want to do it naturally. With a code word, I'll know I have the option, but it will be buried a layer deep and not so easily accessible.

post #29 of 80

poppyseed that is a neat idea.. I am going to run that past my friend who is going to be my doula :)  Thanks!

post #30 of 80

 

Hi! This is my first post here but I want to get in on the action...

 

Name: H Jane

 

Weeks/Days along: 26

 

Appointments: 2/2 (thursday) glucose test, and they want to test DH's blood b/c I came back as a carrier for CF :(  Hopefully he is not a carrier

 

Symptoms: same as they have been- leg cramps, restless sleep, fatigue

 

Food: nothing unusual- trying to eat a healthy vegetarian diet, but I feel like I'm not eating enough

 

Exercise: walking the dog. does that count??

 

Body changes and other milestones: getting bigger... feeling movement day and night :)

 

Thoughts: I definitely feel the nesting happening... trying to clear out clutter from the whole house and get things ready.  Our budget is stressing me out, as is trying to finish grad school work.  Hoping to convince DH that we should use our tax refund to hire a doula- I feel like time is running out!  I'm going over to post my "to-make" list on the other thread now, hoping that it will hold me accountable to it :)

post #31 of 80
Thread Starter 

poppyseed, I think that is such a cool idea.  I always ask for drugs when I am in transition--I kind of loose it and am going out of my mind and scream DRUGS!  But you are right, I don't really want drugs... Its just a way to express that feeling of being totally out of your mind and just wanting it to change...

 

typically by that time it is too late for drugs, so they just kind of look at me like a crazy woman wild.gif  .... but this is a great idea...

 

CorgiMommy, hug2.gif

 

Julieandemmett, I've been reading birth stories here on mdc, on the hypnobabies site, and on other sites, for midwives and bradley method, etc. I like to read all kinds and not just the hypnobabies ones... but I love to google the birth stories and just read and read.

 

 

post #32 of 80

Corgimommy - sounds like a bit of stress. Even though what your cousin did was foolish, I am still so very sorry to see lives ruined by a mistake that many of us (at some point in our lives) have done in some shape or form. The guilt must be punishment enough for the poor guy. Big hugs.

 

Still eating oatmeal. Been sewing like crazy. Working on a top and bottom set for my 7 year old, getting very creative with the pattern, my first time of really branching out. Off to do some schoolwork!

post #33 of 80

Sorry about your brother and his friends, Corgi.  That's a really tough situation for your family.  And of course, very sad for his friend's family.  :(

 

As for you all you "nesters", I'm so jealous!  I have the desire to clean and declutter, but I lack the...I don't know...motivation?  I don't know the right word.  I really want to do it, but I sit here being a lazy a$$ instead.  shy.gif  I feel so lame.  I manage to do the dishes and laundry and things like that, so the house isn't dirty...but when it comes to things like organizing and decluttering, or deep cleaning I just can't bring myself to do it.  SO LAZY. 

 

 

 

post #34 of 80
@Linnie - I'm sorry to hear about the kidney problems! THE WORST! I had problems with DD1 in the first trimester...first they said it was a kidney infection, then they said kidney stone, they finally settled on "renal colic" because there were no stones on u/s. Hurt as bad as labor and landed me in the emergency room once and OB triage once. Ugh.
Re: heartburn and baby hair...I never heard that particular old wives tale. I had mild hb with both girls but both were bald as bowling balls for well over a year. And I love my bald, roll-y babies. Nom nom nom. smile.gif
Name: Lightheartedmom
Weeks/days: 24w/3d
Appointments: Next Monday...I'm hoping to bring DD2, she hasn't been to an appt yet. She's a little ambivalent (in her 2yo way) about the baby and DD1 loved going to my check-ups when I was pg with DD2...the midwives are always awesome about letting the kids help find the heartbeat, etc.
Symptoms: We have colostrum. I don't know why that made me excited...my boobs are miserable, my nipples are dry like sandpaper (and I am too lazy to remember to put oil on them) and I almost constantly feel that painful tingly feeling you get when you're a few days post partum and your milk comes gushing in...except, no milk. But still, I'm a dork and it does make me a bit excited.
My hips have been killing me off and on. I think it's the SPD that I had with DD2 flaring up, but it's just in my sacrum and hips right now. I took a long walk with MIL last week and could barely walk the next day because my hips kept locking up. I feel it when I roll over in my sleep too...nothing more dandy than waking up in the middle of the night to sharp shooting back pain.
The baby, who has been pretty mellow up to this point, has started moving more consistently (and responds very specifically to salty and spicy foods - couldn't care less about sugary stuff). It's fun to feel all that movement and I try to remember to talk to him/her when I feel movement.
Food: Nothing new or exciting. The foods I enjoy, I enjoy a LOT...I'm into fresh fruits and cold asparagus sprinkled with rice vinegar and soy sauce...thai style chicken legs (look it up on Smittten Kitchen - AMAZING recipe, the longer you marinate the better though....2 days is good!). I'm worried I'm eating too many pesticide-laden foods because all the fruits I want to eat aren't organic and they're ALL on the dirty dozen list...peaches, cherries, grapes...Oh well. Hopefully baby isn't born with 4 legs.
Exercise: I am shocked to say it, but I actually have been getting walks in consistently - usually at least 4-5x per week. This past week I walked 2 miles with MIL one day and on Saturday we went on a short-ish family hike, and several other days, I took walks by myself or with the girls. I weighed myself a few days ago and was 4lbs shy of my pre-pregnancy weight. I've been closer to equal or slightly below (2lbs) other days recently, so I'm hovering around that weight. I keep telling DH my weight because i'm so flipping excited to not be gaining weight quickly and each day I weigh myself and don't find i've suddenly packed on 10lbs overnight (like I did with DD2), I'm shocked and delighted. He thinks it's weird that I'm so excited...but once I explained to him that my delight stems from the fact that it feels like this is my first pregnancy where my mind and body are in sync - he got it. I started out 30lbs overweight this pregnancy (er...more like 35-40?) and have been dreading the supposedly inevitable surge to being MORE overweight (and I am just not one of those women who drops all her pregnancy weight right after birth). So to find that my body is doing the apparently sensible thing and burning some of that fat (while CLEARLY nourishing a baby and a belly - which continues to grow - it's huge), I'm happy. smile.gif That's a long explaination but again...I am a dork.
Milestones: Colostrum (see above)....and that is about it for now. smile.gif
Thoughts: I haven't been able to keep up with posting lately because MDC crashes my iPhone browser. I mostly feel bad for not keeping up with the spotlight threads - I love reading about each of you individually and feel like there have been such awesome questions.
The more I read about it, the more I am seriously considering doing placenta encapsulation...if I can scare up the $250 to have someone else do it (there is just no.way. I am doing it myself). I'm nervous about the logistics of doing it with a hospital birth, but from what my midwives have told me, they have lots of moms who do it and there's a woman they recommend who actually comes to the hospital to pick it up after the birth. Any moms here who have done it with a hospital birth - I would LOVE to hear your experiences! Acutally...I would love to hear from anyone who's used their placenta as a supplement after birth. I've struggled with mild-moderate PPD after both births and miscarriages and I find myself dreading that part as I get closer to the birth...I'm really ready to do almost anything to help prevent/ease that gloominess that tends to settle in a few weeks PP.

And on that note...Have a great week ladies smile.gif
post #35 of 80
Oh Also...At my last appointment, my MW told me they want me to do a baseline 24 (24!!!)hr urine and bloodwork because I had borderline pre-eclampsia with DD1. I didn't have to do this (same midwives) with DD2...I'm also supposed to do the GD test...I've done that both times before so I'll probably do it again...or maybe not...My blood sugar is steadfastly normal and my weight gain isn't crazy and I'm not eating badly, so I'm not too worried about GD...but I am more overweight this time than last time...so who knows...maybe I should do it...

I'm a little peeved about the 24hr urine and baseline bloodwork...it just feels like more intervention and the idea of doing the 24hr urine is annoying (you basically have to collect ALL your pee over a 24hr period in a jar. My dh had to do it once...but boys have anatomy way more adept for peeing into plastic canisters ;-)).

Anyone else had to do this with a history of Pre-E?
post #36 of 80

For all those who were talking about oatmeal last week, I just found this recipe on Pinterest.  :)

 

http://www.20-by-20.com/2011/12/baked-oatmeal.html

post #37 of 80
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Originally Posted by BubbleMa View Post

For all those who were talking about oatmeal last week, I just found this recipe on Pinterest.  :)

 

http://www.20-by-20.com/2011/12/baked-oatmeal.html



That looks good! Mmmmm!

post #38 of 80

So I have been doing some research on pediatricians and found one that had great reviews.  However, she doesn't do interviews or "meet the providers" type of events due to needing to make room for appointments...her office manager did send a FAQ type of attachment and said if we had additional questions that they would be more than happy to answer them.  So the good stuff: She supports the parents' decisions on select and delayed vax; and all of her vaccinations are mercury/thimerosal-free and "as preservative-free as they come".  She also won't fire patients for non-vax if that's what we decided to do.  She's on our insurance as well.  They also claim to try and cluster the well-checks together so the sick-checks are at a different time of day.  My concerns are not getting to meet her upfront and it also sounds like if she's busy the baby would be seen by one of her two nurse-practitioners.  I'm from a small town so I'm accustomed to seeing the same doctor, same dentist, etc.  I'm still getting used to all of the group practices around here.  

 

I suppose if we didn't like her or the NPs we could switch...what do you think? 

 

post #39 of 80
Thread Starter 


Sounds good.  Honestly, having a NP is great but kids are different, especially infants.  I've found having a ped invaluable.  Allopathic doctors aren't great when it comes to nutrition, intolerances, etc. But its good to know one, especially if they are non-vax friendly... if you need an Xray or have to go to the ER it is very helpful to have a Ped who they emergency people will know and you don't have to go into the whole non-vax thing.

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So I have been doing some research on pediatricians and found one that had great reviews.  However, she doesn't do interviews or "meet the providers" type of events due to needing to make room for appointments...her office manager did send a FAQ type of attachment and said if we had additional questions that they would be more than happy to answer them.  So the good stuff: She supports the parents' decisions on select and delayed vax; and all of her vaccinations are mercury/thimerosal-free and "as preservative-free as they come".  She also won't fire patients for non-vax if that's what we decided to do.  She's on our insurance as well.  They also claim to try and cluster the well-checks together so the sick-checks are at a different time of day.  My concerns are not getting to meet her upfront and it also sounds like if she's busy the baby would be seen by one of her two nurse-practitioners.  I'm from a small town so I'm accustomed to seeing the same doctor, same dentist, etc.  I'm still getting used to all of the group practices around here.  

 

I suppose if we didn't like her or the NPs we could switch...what do you think? 

 



 

post #40 of 80

I think she sounds great Casmer. Thats just my opinion coming from a big city and now I live in a rural area.

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