So, I had a 2nd tear on my perineum, a 1st degree tear upward (which basically disconnected my clitoral hood from my labia...) and an internal skid mark. Husband and I FINALLY tried to have sex the other day (um...baby is 10 weeks...poor hubs) and we couldn't because I had too much pain. It seems like there's a lot of scar tissue there now and it's so tight we couldn't get him in. :/ Ouch. Between that and my complete lack of sex drive (tandem nursing, and the oldest is cutting her last molars which might have something to do with that) I'm not seeing much nookie in his future.