I don't have info on those programs but I have sent you some other links.
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This seems like something he could get help with at school. My ds (8 next month) is considered OHI under IDEA and receives speech therapy at school for some articulation issues and pragmatics. We do have a social skills game at home (You Are a Social Detective) that was a bit pricey ($90) but he has gotten some benefit out of it; doing a lesson (and getting a mini mun score) once a week on Sunday is a condition of his playing his games on the X-Box; sometimes school resource teachers/counselors have games like this that students can use at school.
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Ds (who does take medication) tends to be stubborn and have a lower tolerance for frustration also, and the first few times of something new are a struggle, but once it becomes part of his routine he does better with it; if it is part of a written schedule that's even better.
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I recommended reading "Wrightslaw: From Emotions to Advocacy"; the information from the book can be found on their site as well (Table of Contents). Reading "Wrightslaw: Special Education Law, 2nd Edition," would be a good idea as well).
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Under IDEA/IEP, if your child has a disability that adversely affects educational performance, your child is entitled to an education that is designed to meet the child's unique needs and from which your child receives educational benefit.
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A 504 is helping your child get the same education that everyone else is getting--more for a student that needs accommodations to help them learn (like sitting next to the teacher) or for behavior, and that they are not punished for things that they cannot control due to the ADHD (like needing to work standing up or not sit inside a group).
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[A IEP or 504 is not an escalation or punishment for the teacher/school. It's more about getting all appropriate parties involved and on the same page. The student, parent/legal guardian, teachers, principals, Pupil Services administrators, support staff (i.e. nurse, counselor, psychologist, language/speech pathologist) as well as the student's physician or therapist may be involved in the placement process including the 504 meeting.]
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Key Differences Between Section 504, the ADA, and the IDEA.
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If you decide to request the school do an evaluation, you need to "start the clock" in your letter of request; the school has 60 days from the date they received parental consent for evaluation to do the evaluation; your written request should note that this letter is the consent for evaluation. (And, if you did not do it in writing, it never happened!).
Determining Eligibility: How Many Days is 60 Days? - Wrightslaw
The Art of Writing Letters by Pam and Pete Wright - Advocacy ...
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Independent Education Evaluations: What? How? Why? Who Pays?
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