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post #21 of 37
2/4/12 at 8:24am

Jess, I am heartbroken for you!  What a horrible situation!! Of course you should share here and get as much support as you can!  I wish there were something I could do but I'll be sending positive thoughts your ways and to the gals here who may have La law connections, that you can get some info/help soon.  What a terrible time to be going through this. Hugs and love to you and you family!

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post #22 of 37
2/4/12 at 8:58am

This is so not what you need right now.  Ugh.  

 

A gentle reminder that kids are really resilient.  I know- I was one of them, growing up between divorced parents who could not at all get along.  

 

Hang in there, mama.  

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post #23 of 37
2/5/12 at 10:13am
Just wanted to say I'm thinking of you. Sending lots of positive vibes your way.
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post #24 of 37
2/6/12 at 12:35pm
Thread Starter 

Thanks for all the support, ladies. I am still in shock, trying to cope, feeling lost....

My older boy ran away to avoid going with ex (he is still missing, and I am worried, but honestly, he is probably OK, better than he would be), and ex is not letting my younger boy speak to me at all. It's a mess.

My internet is off at home so I won't be on as much for a while, but i don't think I really have much to contribute right now anyway.

Love to all of you, I will check in on y'all as often as I can blowkiss.gif

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post #25 of 37
2/7/12 at 1:59am

Oh hun, just seeing this now. The courts here are barbaric, and slow.

 

If you ever need to show up in this state to fight this crap, I will find you and yours  a place to crash, if it is just my couch.

 

there is a special place in hell for people like that...

 

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post #26 of 37
2/9/12 at 4:59pm
Thread Starter 

As of Monday, younger DS and ex are back on the Mainland (probably in NC by now) I have only spoken to DS one time, he had no idea we have been calling and leaving messages everyday. He is very sad and wants to come home. My atty is still working on the case, he is filing something either today or first thing next week to push for jurisdiction, which is at this point, the key issue. Once we get jurisdiction firmly established here, then I can get my baby back.

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post #27 of 37
2/9/12 at 6:30pm

I hope that jurisdiction is established asap. It should be since that is where your children live and neither parent lives in LA anymore. Makes sense to me anyway. Praying for you and your boys. Keep us updated and I'm sure all of your kids know how much you love them. hug2.gif

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post #28 of 37
2/9/12 at 11:23pm
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Originally Posted by csekywithlove View Post

I hope that jurisdiction is established asap. It should be since that is where your children live and neither parent lives in LA anymore. Makes sense to me anyway. Praying for you and your boys. Keep us updated and I'm sure all of your kids know how much you love them. hug2.gif


This. exactly.

 

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post #29 of 37
2/10/12 at 7:32am

The whole jurisdiction thing hasn't made sense from the beginning. It seems a judge in HI should be able to force the issue!

 

Prayers for you and yours, especially your two boys!

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post #30 of 37
2/10/12 at 10:45am

I'm so sorry!  I hope it gets resolved quickly and your sons are home ASAP.

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post #31 of 37
2/14/12 at 3:11pm
Thread Starter 

So ex isn't telling my son that I call and leave messages everyday, he is controlling all conversation, even taking the phone and making him hang up. He has made it clear that he has no intention of letting me visit him (even tho I have a court ordered right, he already has it worked out to make it impossible for me to exercise that right if he doesn't want me to, and he doesn't want me to.)

14 yo is still missing.

Atty is still on it but waiting on copies of documents from La.

I'm sorry I have no energy to read or respond to anything else right now. I know some of y'all have had your troubles with various things... i am sorry, and I hope that overall things are going well for everyone.

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post #32 of 37
2/14/12 at 3:23pm

jess, i don't think anyone would think anything less of you for not following any posts that are written.  you have a LOT on your plate right now!  i'm hoping that the courts can take care of this soon for you, especially since it has become very obvious that the best interest of the boys is NOT to be with their father!  know that we are all thinking of you and wishing you the best and hoping that a resolution comes soon for you.  take care of yourself and the littles who are still with you.

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post #33 of 37
2/14/12 at 10:23pm

((Hugs)) Jess...keep updating us.

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post #34 of 37
2/15/12 at 5:01am

Jess - hug2.gifI wish there was something more than e-hugs I could offer. I hope your 14yo is safe, your atty is great, the judges you catch are favorable, and your get your boys back asap. 

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post #35 of 37
2/15/12 at 5:10am

I'm thinking of you and praying for your boys.

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post #36 of 37
2/15/12 at 7:44am

God what a horrible situation. I can't even imagine. Im sooooo sorry. I'm usually not a hateful person, but I really hope your ex ROTS IN HELL for what he is doing to you and your children.....(and we can throw the judge in that category as well!!)

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post #37 of 37
2/15/12 at 11:25am

Oh my gosh, Jess, don't worry about us!  You take care of yourself and your family.  Please keep us updated as you are able.

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