Again, thanks to all of you for your thoughts!
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I think I have made some progress on trying to decide what to do. I am not too worried about my personal reactions to the vaccine. To be honest I have had a lot of shots, I travelled all around the world and of course got everything they recommended - before I knew better. Another thing is that I am not anti-vaccine I think I am more anti-schedule. Not sure what we will do in the future, just knew up till now I did not want to get any for DS.
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So I digress....
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I had a good friend who actually did my travel vaxes, I use to babysit all her children when they were young, house sat, dog sat, etc... The point is that I feel comfortable chatting with her and talking about her point of view. I can not believe that I had never thought of contacting her before this. Anyways, she called and we talked for over an hour. So I am still not convinced about vaxing him, that is what she pushed.
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But I did come up with an idea and would really like to know your thoughts. She told me that yellow fever is not recommended during breastfeeding, but, if (you know the usual saying) the benefit outways the risk they will give it. And they tell the Mom to pump and dump for ten days.
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So considering we are pretty sure mmr goes into breast milk then what if I pumped and dumped for a few days after. My concerns are the following:
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1) He won't take a cup (obviously we would try before I went to do the shot)
2) He won't want to go back to nursing after he has had cup (my biggest concern)
3) He won't take the cup from me (which means mom would have to come stay)
4) Not sure how long to pump and dump (I know it says virus can shed via nose 7-28 days following vaccination)
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My old boss (I was a nanny) left her 10 month old with me cause she had to go on a business trip. He took the cup just fine while she was gone and then went right back to nursing once she returned. He continued till just a few months ago until she weaned because she was pregnant and felt too tired to do it anymore.
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My little man sure does love nursing, so my hopes would be that he would go back, my heart would break a little if he didn't.
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I guess it comes down to the fact that I know myself and who I am, amd even though I could tell myself a million times that rubella is rare, I know I would worry my whole pregnancy. And I LOVE being pregnant and I really just want to enjoy it. Plus I know that we want 3+ kids so there hopefully be more pregnancies.  And if I did get it and something happened to baby I would never forgive myself
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So, what do you think? Pump and dump and if I got the shot in March I was thinking to wait at least till July/August to TTC. Thanks so much for listing and for your help!!
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I also have one more question:
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After maternal immunization, infectious rubella virus or virus antigen was recovered from the nasopharynx and throat of 56% of the breast-fed infants and from none of the non-breast-fed infants. Of the breast-fed infants, 25% showed transient seroconversion to rubella virus but without any clinical disease. No rubella virusspecific seroconversion was observed in the non-breast-fed infants. These observations provide strong support for the communicability of rubella virus to neonates via the process of breast-feeding.
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I think that I don't really understand this. Is it so bad if he did get it, isn't that what we are all so upset about - our kids don't have the opportunity to contract "common" childhood illness? I can see that in a newborn it would be bad. But by the time I got the shot, DS would be 14 months.
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Oh man, I don't know!! Even after writing all this I am still so unsure 