Anyone dealt with this issue? This will be my 4th child (in July) and I really want to go for it unassisted. Husband is petrified of 'something going wrong'. My previous labours were quick and easy...8h, 4h and 2h...the last 2 at home with a midwife. Problem is, there's only 1 mw in this town and I was disappointed with her care and don't want her back! I feel I can do it...he is so afraid of the unknown - the cord getting tangled or something happening that he can't manage and he is afraid I or the child will die....what to do? His fear is infecting me..! any advice from one's who's been there? thanks!!