We aren't planning on telling anyone anytime soon. We are actually joking we should just wait until the baby is born and post a picture and something like "hope you are all ready for a new member". Neither family is very supportive of us or our life style. I already hear it from them about being a SAHM, have 3!!! Kids (not my DH is 1 of 5 and I'm 1 of 3 but our parents are appalled at us having 3), homeschooling, delayed vaxing, not circing etc. I use to live near his family while he was deployed and they made my life such a living hell that I became severely depressed. Then they lied to my husband about me. I got to hear practically daily about how horrible a parent I was and how I should just stop being lazy and get a job so at least I was contributing SOMETHING to the family. Last pregnancy they caused me so much stress during it that my doctor joked me he was about to order me to not have contact since they were raising my blood pressure so high. My father, while not that bad, still offered to pay for an abortion for my second child because he doesn't think we belong having more than 1. When I had number 3 he was really upset with me and told me I was ruining my life "by popping kids out like rabbits".. So, I really don't want the stress at having to deal with our family's negative reactions.
So, anyone planning on either not saying anything for a while or waiting until at least a certain time to say something?