i do a lot of reading these forums, but don't post very often, but i do have a question that i hope some of you may be able to help with. dd HATES the car. she seems to be ok if i am in the back with her, with my face really close to her, but unfortunately dh is usually at work when i have to go out. i know that there isn't a whole lot i can do about it, as i have tried everthing, but i am wondering, will she get used to it faster if i plan to go out at least once a day, or should i just go out when it is absolutly nessacary? everytime i do leave the house wih her i swear i will never leave again, it is absolutly heartbreaking listening to her cry. i can't stand it, and obv. she can't either...but there are times when going in the car is unavoidable. anyone have any advise?