Jpack - sooo sorry to hear about your dog. Amazing what loyal family members they become.
doulahrebekah - yay! how exciting to be able to finally apply for adoption! I have a good friend who lives in Philippines, who is a midwife, and who was unable to get pregnant (hubby is sterile). She adopted domestically last year and it's amazing to see the family they've become in one year. So happy for you. Maybe you'll be one of those people who applies to adopt and ends up pregnant :)
AFM - Yesterday was 16DPO for me, my temp was still luteal-phase-ish in the am and I took a test (BFN) and then AF came. I was having cramps and spotting but was in denial since my temp hadn't dropped. Hubby's testicles still aren't back to 100% (his semen isn't either - is that TMI?) so hoping that as he continues to slowly get better, things will look up again. You can move me to waiting to O. On the positive side - pregnancy tests where I live are only 20 cents so they won't be a huge budget item for us :)