I just found out this afternoon that I'm pregnant with #4... Was married to the dad of my 3 and went through a horrible divorce last year, he's pretty much out of the picture now. I've only been dating this guy 8 months.
I told him tonight and he was really upset, said I had to get an abortion. I told him why I couldn't and wouldn't do that but when he kept arguing I finally just said fine and told him I never want to see him again. It really hurts... he has a 4yr old so I kind of was thinking he'd be at least open to something other than just getting rid of the child he and I made together.
I can't get an abortion. But I have to. I feel in my heart I could handle another child but I know I will have no support emotionally, physically, financially. So logically, I can't have another child. How will I even take care of mine when I have morning sickness, etc etc etc. But if I had an abortion I know it would destroy me. But then again if I wasn't able to take proper care of all my children that would destroy all of us. I'm just in shock that I'm in this situation at all and don't know what to do.
I wrote a huge long thread in the "I'm pregnant" forum but this seems like a better fit...