Our state is still trying to come up with a policy for gifted/advanced learners.... Locally, the district's placement policy distributed to families only refers to grade placement in terms of repeating grades, and says nothing about skipping grades. It does say they do not allow students to start 1st grade unless they are 6 prior to September 1, and that there are "no exceptions to this rule." They offer a compacted curriculum beginning in 4th for students who test above a certain level on a Terra Nova test in 3rd grade.
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In the first week of 1st grade, the teacher had the students fill out a worksheet that said "In first grade, I want to ______________" and DD wrote "learn complikated math," and drew a picture of a teacher and child looking at multiplication problems on the blackboard.  The teacher never did a thing to differentiate math for her, even after I asked her mid-year what she could do for DD (and still nothing changed), so I started to teach DD what she was asking to learn.Â
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We were told that bit about having to stay with her classmates for math instruction and assessment last spring, near the end of 1st grade, when we met with the principal and 2nd grade teacher to come up with a more appropriate plan for DD. We had asked for a full grade acceleration into 3rd, but we were told 2nd grade was much more rigorous than 1st, with much more opportunity for differentiation, and we agreed to give it a try. DD is young, with a birthday 6 weeks before the grade cut-off, so that kept us from insisting on moving her up a grade.
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As for what the school knows about her math level, as far as I can tell, they don't pretest material, or test to find the student's actual level. They test for proficiency after each unit of instruction, to see if anyone needs more work on what was covered.  I do think DD's teacher now has a better idea of DD's abilities. She has given DD progressively harder homework as DD shows what she can do. Now that the school uses an online math skills program that covers K-8 math (firstinmath.com), DD tried out fifth grade math on her own, and her teacher can see what she works on. She also knows DD participates in a weekly afterschool math group, but I don't think she gets that the group is focused on math topics that aren't covered in elementary school.Â
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DD is very frustrated with math at school, saying it's like she's had to sit through kindergarten math every year. Since it's a spiraling curriculum, it probably looks to her like the same material again and again. I recently asked her what kind of math she wants to learn next, and she said "more real-life math." Then she said "Actually, math IS life." With that attitude, how can I leave it up to the school system to teach her on their timetable?Â
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These responses have made me realize that I need to make this meeting about the big picture of how to handle DD's instruction more appropriately now, and next year, rather than focusing on the details of how to use various supplements. I'm glad I can come here to get a reality check from people who get what I'm talking about.
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