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[NCMtnMama]

I'm sorry to hear about this too. I have no words of wisdom, unfortunately. But I commend your strength for making some very very tough decisions for the good of your family. 

[csekywithlove]

Oh mama. I'm sending you the largest amounts of positive vibes, prayer and love that I can. I know your pain very well, my DH deals with alcoholism and it has been a struggle. But things will get better. You are strong and so is Aries. Let us know if you need anything. 

[Marnica]

I am a licensed drug and alcohol counselor - I see everyday the devastation that this terrible disease brings to individuals and families. Im so sorry you are going through this and hope Brian can find his way back to his family. Hugs to you

[miss_honeyb]

I will pray for you and your family!! I hope you sense our support of you. 

[rubyjune]

So sorry you have to deal with all this at such an vulnerable time. prayers

[Fern5Fern]

What a tough situation, I hope it can resolve itself positively, but in the interim I hope you can find peace and strength through this emotionally challenging time.  I'll be sending positive thoughts and support.

[AiryFairy]

Wow, thank you all for your support, it really does help! <3  Brian and I are thinking he's going to miss the birth :(  We will come out of this stronger and healthier though.  I just know it, as everything happens for a reason.  We're still waiting to hear back from his PO on what her recommendation is.  Hoping and praying for the best but preparing for the worst.

[csekywithlove]

I hope that his PO gives you good news! Still praying for you all and keep us updated. For now, enjoy the weekend and get some rest mama. 

[AiryFairy]

We got news today.  Unfortunately Brian is going to miss Aries' birth but the positive is, we feel like this is turning a new leaf as far as his recovery goes.  He will be going to a 60 day secure detention treatment program about 2 hours away that starts March 17th.  So Aries will be around a month old when he comes home.  It's not the best but we're going to make the best out of it.

Now to decide if I want a doula or if I want to birth on my own with my midwives.  The only reason I really would want a doula (so I think now) is to have someone take care of the birth pool for me.

Thank you all for being here for me and for your prayers <3

[kaismum]

I hope that Brian is able to get the help that he needs to get on a better path. My father was an alcoholic and the back and forth was so very painful. I can imagine that is only amplified by it being your husband who is struggling with the difficulties involved with being an addict. I will be thinking a lot about your family. 

There are a lot of good doulas in our area. Although, maybe it would be just as easy to have a close friend or a relative on pool duty? I am sure that the answer will become apparent to you soon. 

[Christy1980]

Hugs to you and your family.  I'm also hopeful this will be a turning point for him and for your family.  Stay strong!

[wendybird]

I am so sorry he is going to miss the birth, but stand in awe of your strength and positive attitude in dealing. You remain in my thoughts, and I hope you are able to find a doula you click with! <3

[lalazap]

So sorry to hear about all of this. Thinking of you and wishing you strength as you navigate this very difficult territory with your DH, family, and baby. Hugs to all of you.

[csekywithlove]

Just saw this today. I hope that Brian gets all the help he needs although I know not having him there for the birth will be tough. But things will be great once he is home and healthy. Continuing to send you prayer and love, mama. And get a doula, or an awesome friend to work that tub for you. 

[saudade]

I am hoping that the father of this baby goes to treatment as well. We are not together anymore, but he is wanting to be in this child's life but he is a former crack addict/current meth addict. :( I had to choose to end the relationship because of this and I just hope that someday he gets the help he needs so he can manage his life. You have to do what you have to do for you and your children and only you know what that is. For me, it was to walk away. ((HUGS)) I hope you get the treatment you need as well, because you are all affected. I'm in college studying psychology with the end goal of Addictions Counseling, by the way. Hang in there!