My 8-month old dd won't let anyone else carry her except me and dh. She cries when I put her down. She won't be pacified by anything except nursing. And even then, not always.
DD and I are visiting my parents without dh, and she cries when she sees people and won't let anyone hold her even for a second. I'm at my wits' end. Sometimes even nursing or rocking or things that used to work doesn't work. I'm so frustrated I think about letting her CIO until she learns to self-soothe. These days I take her with me to the bathroom just because she can't be with anyone else without crying. She used to be okay with people so I'm not sure why she's like this suddenly? She's not sick as far as I could tell.