So! Apparently I've named another thread this. Oh well.
Charlie is sleeping more soundly, I think. I'm able to move him about without waking him up pretty easily. Or even put him down and have him keep sleeping (though I rarely do it because I don't WANNA)
I can take him in the night and get up from my recliner (never graceful), walk to his room (well, his dresser's room..), change his diaper into the night diaper (which includes a generous butt greasing with coconut oil), adjust his clothes for sleep, pick him up, carry him to our room, put him in bed, get ready for bed myself and then climb into bed with him (which, as he rolls over to meet me, usually includes me elbowing him in the head)....
And he usually doesn't wake up.
So either he's been sneaking sleeping pills or life just got a lot easier for his mother. And it was pretty good to start.
Sleep itself isn't quite so good. I'm trying to decide if we all three got sick with something and it cause Dusty to throw up but me and Charlie to be crazy gassy for DAYS or if it's separate issues, but dang. It's hard to get him to sleep laying in bed because he's so gassy.