How's everybody doing? I wanted to update with my shock that DD has weaned herself. I thought weaning would be tearful and traumatic but apparently she was ready. My milk was gone (and nursing was SO painful) and she basically went down to just nursing a few sucks on each side at bedtime, and then eventually stopped asking for it. I did encourage weaning a few times later - if she asked about it, I told her "nooks are empty" and she was okay with it.
Honestly I'm shocked, I had expected to tandem nurse as long as DD wanted to. But I'm also relieved to have a little break. It's nice to be able to let my DH do the whole bedtime routine so I can lie down and get my feet up!
I did read Adventures in Tandem Nursing which I highly recommend, it has a ton of info about nursing while pregnant that I didn't find anywhere else. It was very non-judgemental about whatever your choice might be, and reassuring to me that my supply drop wasn't my fault - it's the hormones.