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SPOTLIGHT ON.... Mama Chickadee!

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Mama Chickadee, this is your spotlight thread! 


People can ask you questions, and you can answer (or not, your choice). Or you can just share if you want to. It's up to you!

 

To get the ball rolling, here are a few starter questions!

 

  1. Backstory! Tell us about you, where you came from, how you got to where you are now. 
  2. What are you craving right now?
  3. If someone handed you $1000, no strings attached, what would you do with it?
  4. What's your favorite type of soup?
  5. Talk about your house a little-- are you happy where you live? Best part about your house? Worst?
post #2 of 9

Yea! My turn :) Thanks, Cecilia's Mama for doing the spotlight threads. I ran them for my last DDC, so I appreciate the work you do to keep the ball rolling :)

 

 

Backstory! Tell us about you, where you came from, how you got to where you are now. 

Well, I was born, raised, and have settled in the Northeast, so I haven't gone too far from home :) DH and I met in grad school 10 years ago, and got married 3 years later. We have a 4 year old DD, a 1.5 year old DS, a 7 year old standard poodle, and a 20 year old horse that I have had since childhood. I worked full time until DD was 20 months old as a financial analyst, and have stayed home since.

 

What are you craving right now?

a pedicure! 

 

If someone handed you $1000, no strings attached, what would you do with it?

First, I'd go get that pedicure :) Then, assuming the rest of the money was for something fun, not something practical (like paying down the mortgage) I would probably go nuts in a plant catalog, and at Home Depot getting things for the garden in preparation for spring. Like, a couple of rain barrels, a bunch on pavers to bring up the side of the garden so all the dirt doesn't run onto the grass when I water, and some really nice planters. Last summer was the first time we were in a house with a real yard with sun that I could plant flowers and vegetables. I didn't go crazy last year with planting and buying stuff because I didn't know the sun patterns and soil well enough, and had a lot of work to do digging up old ratty bushes, and removing roots. This summer, all bets are off! 

 

your favorite type of soup?

Hmm, I have 3. My dad makes an amazing fish chowdah (ok, let's make it 4 - an amazing lobstah chowdah, too) MMMMMM! he made the fish chowder the night DS was born, and it was SOOOOO good. Then there are two soups I make - one is a variation on my maternal grandmother's corn chowder recipe (wow, didn't know I was so addicted to chowder) and the other is a curry carrot soup my paternal grandmother gave me the recipe for. 

 

Talk about your house a little-- are you happy where you live? Best part about your house? Worst?

I really love our location - we can walk to church, the grocery store, the library, post office, bus lines, toy stores, ice cream shop, pharmacy,  Dunkin donuts, Starbucks, 3 playgrounds, dog park, etc, etc. There are always people out and about. Its a nice neighborhood that is a mix of older retired professionals, and young people with kids. We moved into our house a year and a half ago (actually moved from across the street, funny story) and we're quite happy in the house. Its an old victorian, and the first 2 floors have that old world feel to them, but the 3rd floor is renovated and has a skyline view of the city, and is where we have our entertainment center and computer and stuff. The only downside to this, is that there is a lot of walking up and down stairs! I am tired at the end of the day, so climbing upstairs to the tv is a bummer, and then if you want, say, a bowl of ice cream, its 2 flights down and 2 flights up! Makes you really think about whether you actually *need* that bowl of ice cream!


Edited by Mama Chickadee - 2/21/12 at 7:43pm
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so .. if I read that right, you are a SAHM right now? If so ..

1. What is your favourite part about being a SAHM?

2. What is your least favourite part about being a SAHM?

3. What, if anything, do you miss about your past career?

4. Do you plan to return to work? How old would you like your kids to be?

5. Do your kids have any funny nicknames?

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What is your favorite movie of all time?

What is your favorite food for a snack?  For breakfast?  Dinner?

Do you have a cat or dog or any other animals? 

If you could go anywhere for a one week vacation right now where would it be?

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Haha! Or you can do like me and get a dorm sized fridge and stock it with night time snack foods! 

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Originally Posted by MsZelda View Post

so .. if I read that right, you are a SAHM right now? If so ..

1. What is your favourite part about being a SAHM?

2. What is your least favourite part about being a SAHM?

3. What, if anything, do you miss about your past career?

4. Do you plan to return to work? How old would you like your kids to be?

5. Do your kids have any funny nicknames?


Let's see.... 

 

So favorite part of being a stay at home mom - the ability to take a nap when the kids do! ;) I guess I really enjoy being able to have as much time with the kids as I want, without feeling torn to go to work like I used to. That stress is just gone from my life

 

Least favorite is that I feel "stuck" a lot of times with the kids.... kind of the flip to my favorite. My husband travels a lot internationally for work, and so I will have the kids all my own for 1-2 weeks at a time. That gets really old. It would still be stressful if I were working, but at least I would be able to get out during the day

 

From my past career, I miss being able to schedule my own time, and to really get into challenging projects. I feel like now the most involved I can get into anything during the day is 15 minutes worth, and that is if I am lucky. 

 

Eventually, I want to go back to work. Ideally, I would like to wait until the littlest one is in school full time, but would consider a part time job before then if the situation was right. So, I guess I have another 6ish years until full time work again. Its funny though, the other day I was putting together a long term financial planning spreadsheet for our family, and even with waiting until this baby is in school full time, when I look at the entirety of our working years, its still a pretty small chunk, comparatively.

 

My daughter doesn't really have a nickname, but my son earned the name "Trouble" He was at a pediatrician's appointment around  months old, and he was tearing the place apart (literally - he was tearing up all the paper sheets on the examining table, and as soon as I could get one hand free, the next one would be ripping in again) Our very quiet, mild mannered doc said, quietly "Oh, this one is going to be trouble!" The way he said it struck me as so funny, the nickname kind of stuck. However, I do believe that kids will grow into whatever expectations we have for them, good or bad, and realized I ought to stop calling him "trouble" even though it warms my heart! But, even though I haven't used it for a couple of months, my 4 year old DD still says it. So, I guess I need to find him a new nickname to replace it!

 

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What is your favorite movie of all time?

What is your favorite food for a snack?  For breakfast?  Dinner?

Do you have a cat or dog or any other animals? 

If you could go anywhere for a one week vacation right now where would it be?



Favorite movie?

Wow, that is a hard one. I love "The Thomas Crowne Affair" - classy and intelligent. Pixar has won my heart though with Cars and Finding Nemo.

 

Favorite food for snack, breakfast, dinner?

 

snack: hmm.... a fresh guac dip ad torillas is great, but so are oreos topped with peanut butter and a big glass of milk!

breakfast: homemade buttermilk pancakes, fresh bread, cheese, juice and fried eggs with hot sauce

dinner: you know, there's a lot of different dinners I love. For the past year or so now, though, I have been making fresh bread almost every day, so I would have to say, my favorite dinner is one where we have fresh bread (and it came out of the oven just perfect!)

 

Pets:

I have a 7 year old standard poodle (chosen before the kids were born due to the fact that my family has lots of allergies)

20 year old bashkir curly horse who both kids love to ride

 

Vacation:

Actually, tomorrow is our family vacation, and we are going to Jamaica! I am so excited! And a little overwhelmed at the thought of taking 2 kids there on my own (DH is already there working)

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Haha! Or you can do like me and get a dorm sized fridge and stock it with night time snack foods! 



We've thought of this! But never actually followed through. Maybe we both subconsciously realize that as soon as we buy a mini fridge, we'll both gain 10 lbs ;)

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haha, we have a rule that we only eat snacks one night a week.  LOL.  EXCEPT when I'm pregnant.  then I eat whenever I want.  And who is going to stop me, right?  :)

 

Jamaica.  NICE.  We are leaving for AU tonight.  I COULD NOT imagine flying ANYWHERE without DH.  The mere thought makes me sweat. 

 

What are some other places you've vacationed?

 

How are your kids doing with the pregnancy?

 

 

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