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Awaiting miscarriage

post #1 of 20
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So sad. After some bleeding yesterday, I requested an imaging ultrasound to confirm that the baby was okay. At that time, the baby had a heartbeat and was moving around on the ultrasound. However, I was shocked to be told that our baby had a condition called alobar holoprosencephaly, which is a brain development defect incompatible with life. Although we were not considering termination of the pregnancy, we scheduled an appointment with a genetic counselor today to discuss our options for testing since this problem is frequently associated with some of the major chromosomal disorders (trisomy 13 and trisomy 18) and we wanted to have confirmation of a sort. On the repeat ultrasound there, we found the baby had died sometime in the previous 24 hours. So now we wait. This is the hardest thing I've ever done.
post #2 of 20

Oh my gosh, I am so so sorry.  Peace, love and light to you during this time.  hug2.gif

post #3 of 20

Womanswisdom, I'm terribly sorry to hear of your loss.  Good thoughts to you.

post #4 of 20

So very sorry to hear your sad news, it must be absolutely devastating.  Sending you lots of strength to get through this very difficult time.  So very sorry.  candle.gif your precious little one.

post #5 of 20

May peace, light, and love surround you during this time.  I'm so sorry to hear of this tragic news.  ((((hugs))))

post #6 of 20

I am so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss.

post #7 of 20

I am so so sorry. That is truly heartbreaking. hug2.gifI hope you find peace in your struggle. God bless!

post #8 of 20

Lots of thoughts and prayers for you.  Be gentle with yourself.

post #9 of 20

I'm so sorry for your loss.  candle.gif

post #10 of 20

I wish you comfort. I'm so sorry.

post #11 of 20

 repeated accidentally.

post #12 of 20

I'm so sorry, you must be just devastated.  Please take good care of yourself and know that you're in our thoughts. 

post #13 of 20
What a devastating time for you. Many hugs and loving comfort to you.
post #14 of 20

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts are with you.

post #15 of 20

I'm so sorry for your loss, mama. Many blessings to you during this time. xxx

post #16 of 20

My heart breaks for you. I'm very sorry.

post #17 of 20

Hugs and prayers your way.  Know you're not alone.

post #18 of 20

I am so very sorry and touched by this.  There is nothing in world that is a devastating as loosing your light.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. hug2.gif

post #19 of 20

I'm so sorry for your loss.

post #20 of 20
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that greensad.gif

I'm thinking of you.
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