I was just wondering if anyone struggles with this. I struggle with this A LOT, like, to the point where I am considering getting some help for it. I lost a baby at 34 weeks before my dd and one at 20 weeks after my dd, and I often feel like it made me feel like I have to be the "perfect" mom to the one I have.
Everything that doesn't go smoothly, I instantly blame myself and think I am doing it wrong. If you read my post about my daughter being very attached to me, that is a good example. I now feel like I wish I had done things differently when she was younger. I constantly question myself.
I guess I was just wondering if anyone else struggles with this, and if anyone has any tips for dealing with it.