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My 4months old refusing to eatpost #1 of 92/25/12 at 7:10pmThread StarterMy son is almost 4 months old. About 4 weeks ago he started refusing the breast. I can only nurse him right after he falls asleep. I think this all started after he had his first vaccines (TDAP, Rotavirus) when he was ~9 weeks old (Jan 10th). For the past few days, he doesn't even want to sleep. As a result he's eating even less. He's sucking on his hands all the time, even while nursing. He used to gain 1.5 ounces/day, last week he was down to 0.5ounce/day. He's also becoming very playful and is very curious and alert for his age. I started my period yesterday and been told it was b/c he was nursing less. I'm very frustrated and worried. Have tried anything doctors and lactation consultants suggested, which honestly wasn't much. Anyone having the same experience, any recommendations? PLEASEpost #2 of 92/26/12 at 2:01pmpost #3 of 92/28/12 at 2:24pm
This sounds a lot like my 4 month old. She's already teething and is either uncomfortable or has hands in mouth most of the day - she'll even put hand in mouth in the middle of nursing so we finish way earlier than I'd expect. She's also fascinated and curious all of the sudden - very distractible. But very happy and healthy (not sure of weight comparisons). Oh, and she's sleeping through the night. How many diapers you go through in a day is always a good indicator.post #4 of 92/29/12 at 3:01pm
My first thought is teething. Is he drooling?
At this age, falling asleep may not be the same as it used to be. He may be refusing it because he's not hungry, but tired and needs a little more help falling asleep these days. If you aren't already, you might try swaddling, bouncing/jiggling, while making a shushing sound and have some white noise in the background, to help him fall asleep. ...and a pacifier if you want. (use a fan or something like simplynoise.com)
Look through a copy of Happiest Baby on the Block. It can be very helpful for this time.
Is there a reason you're weighing him frequently?
When you say "refusing to eat" do you mean that he's not eating at all, or just that he's being fussy at the breast sometimes?
Is he getting any bottles?
How do you feel your supply is doing?
Are you feeding on demand/offering the breast often? Right when he wakes up while he's still sleepy? What does your typical day look like in terms of breastfeeding and naps?
There are lots of possibilities, but with a little more info, we should be able to come up with something. Good thinking to come here and ask!
Something you could try in meantime: Right before you're going to feed him, pop a binky or finger in his mouth to get him calm and in a sucking mode, and the quickly switch it out for the breast.
Edited by GuavaGirl - 2/29/12 at 3:16pmpost #5 of 93/3/12 at 5:59am
My son is 4 months old and also teething. He is very uncomfortable and constantly trying to put anything in his mouth.
He will go on a nursing strike for a few days at a time. It's extremely frustrating, but I know that it's because he's in pain. I found the best way to get him to nurse is to pump an ounce or two and give it to him with a bottle. He then wants more and will nurse. He rarely ever gets a bottle. Other times when he gets fussy at the breast, I try to stroke his head and make a quiet "shhhhhhhhh" sound. It seems to calm him down enough to nurse. Another thing I do is give him some Tylenol an hour before I want him to nurse. It helps with the pain.
Try and stick with it. I know how frustrating it is and how tempting it is to just give up... but think of all the benefits you are giving your son. :) Good luck!!post #6 of 93/4/12 at 10:06pmThread StarterHe nurses about 5 times/24 hours, twice during the night. He doesn't wake up to nurse though. I hear him sucking on his hands, so I pick him up and nurse him. He. Used to nurse on both sides, now only on one side and for much less time. He got an ear infection when he was 8 weeks old and has been having a couple of colds and still had nose congestion. The ears are now good though. I usually change him 5 times a day. At least 3 out of 5 the diaper is only slightly wet. He weighed 14.14lbs two weeks ago (~3 1/2 months old). His 4-month appointment is on Tuesday and I'm very nervous about his vaccination. Don't know if I should give him his second round of his rotavirus vaccine, or what other vaccines to go with. I think he is developmentally doing fine. I'm most worried about his eating and his weight gain. What could have caused his refusal to nurse? It's been going on for 6-7 weeks now. Highly appreciate any input.post #7 of 93/4/12 at 10:25pmThread StarterHis doc didn't think he was teething (or even at per teething stage). I use a swing and play music for him. He likes it, but it doesn't always help him sleep, ESP when he is fighting it.
He doesn't eat at all! As soon as I bring him down/close to me to nurse, he gets fussy, arches his back and pushes away the breast with his hands. I weigh him to see how he's growing. He lost a lot of weight first week of his birth and was in 16 percentile (Though his birth weight was good 7.4lbs). Ever since, I get his weight regularly, ESP now that he's not eating. I offer him the breast often, but he won't take and I don't force him. I have a good milk supply. I used to have a lot up until 10 days ago, before my period started.
I'm at a loss here, don't know what happened all of a sudden to make him not eat. I still think the vaccination played some role. I welcome any recommendation. Some times i can tell he is hungry, yet he wouldn't eat. He doesn't like the bottle either. My husband tries it 2-3 times a day. At best he takes about an ounce, or refuse it altogether as well.
Thanks for all your responses and comments.post #8 of 93/4/12 at 10:35pmThread Starterpost #9 of 93/5/12 at 4:38am
Sorry no time to reply, but please read this kellymom page. It give some really good ideas for nursing strikes.
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