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post #41 of 79
courtney--I'm so sorry you have to worry about all of this right now. My FIL is kind of similar, though through some miracle he has a real job at the moment and we're not worrying about him squatting in foreclosed houses with no electricity. It's a nightmare. I hope she can work things out and find a place to stay without impacting you too much right when you need to be focused on your baby!
post #42 of 79

if she ends up homeless she'll just end up on my couch, she might go to live with my sister in colorado although how she would get out there, I'm not sure but I am sure it involves my sister footing the bill.  It would be fine if she would start looking for a place but she just doesn't want to think about it right now b/c so much else is happening.

 

anyway- did zuzu have her baby? people are congratulating her on her facebook wall and I am super curious!

post #43 of 79

Yup, she posted a bit ago. 8:30 this morning, 8lbs and change, original due dates were right.

post #44 of 79
Aww...our first baby (I think)! How exciting! smile.gif
post #45 of 79

zuzu: congratulations!!!!

 

Courtney;  Sorry about your mom.

 

AFM: I had my appt today and there has been no change in the cervix, so the bedrest must be working.  Need to make at least 2 more wks but would prefer 3 more that would bring me to 37wks. 

post #46 of 79

yay for no change!

post #47 of 79
Zuzu- congratulations! Can't wait to see pictures and hear your birth story!
post #48 of 79

Yay for zuzu!

 

 

Courtney, I'm officially appointing you to spread my news on MDC if it ends up on FB first! I don't think I'm FB friends with anyone else in this DDC.

post #49 of 79

Yay for Zuzu! And our first DDC baby joy.gif

post #50 of 79

Congrats Zuzu!!! joy.gif

post #51 of 79
Anyone else feel like they're about to get their period? Cuz I so do. I remember this from last time, but it didn't mean birth soon or anything.
post #52 of 79

I don't know about feeling like I'm going to start my period, because my only pms symptom is bitchiness, but I think DS has settled a little further down in my pelvis.  Not the full on drop feeling, but a partial drop.  It just feels a little more full down there and I can really feel very single movement of his on my bladder and urethra area. It's annoying, especially since I know I have at least a few more weeks!

post #53 of 79

My boobs hurt, I'm getting cramps (but not contractions), my low back hurts, I'm cranky as hell though not in a bad mood, and even my vulva feels wonky like when I get my period. It's everything but the blood. I just looked back at my journal from last pregnancy and I first got this 4 weeks before my daughter was born. Bah!

post #54 of 79

SFMB... I feel exactly the same.   I have no valid reason to be unhappy, but I'm freaking miserable...  

I totally feel like i could start my period at any moment...

 

and CONGRATS ZUZU!!!!

post #55 of 79

adoremybabe, I typed a response to you but now I don't see it.  I was just going to say that your OB's unwillingness to talk about position is probably just because (for a lot of them) it doesn't really matter.  I mentioned position at my last appt (1st with the OB) and she basically shrugged and reminded me that they can turn any time.  I think midwives (generally speaking) are more in tune with a mama's desire to know where her baby is, even if its only for the moment or to confirm that she's assessing her body accurately.  So I would freak out too, but its probably not a huge deal in the long run.  And ITA with declining cervical checks unless they're already up in there.

 

Speaking of the cervix, I tried to reach mine again last night, this time with a leg up on the sink, and still no luck.  I think I'm just going to quit, because of course it doesn't really matter (for me).  I was just hoping to be able to reach it all through the pg. Ah well.

 

remark, that's good news!  Are you going every week now?

 

sunflwr, I definitely don't feel like I'm getting my period, thank goodness.  I only get cramps in the back pre-period and that's going to terrify me into thinking I'll have back labor again.  Interestingly, my cramps/pms were waaaay less after having DD.  I know they say things change after having a babe, but I was pleasantly surprised that I got one benefit out of the ordeal that was DD's birth.  Hoping that the same will hold true after AF comes back after this birth.

 

ETA: prettyisa, was it you that asked about out of the area family?  We aren't having any this time, since my family is closer now--3 hours away--my parents will probably come for a few days and then again for a few days the next weekend or so.  We may ask them to take DD for a few days in between.  When DD was born, she ended up in the NICU out of the area so my parents flew down and stayed in a hotel with us for one of the three weeks, then went down to check on our place and get things ready for us to go home.  After that my mom, and then my MIL came and stayed each for about a week+ when DD was ~11 weeks old (keeping in mind she didn't come home from the hospital until she was 3 weeks old exactly).  Having them there made it possible for her not to go to daycare until she was nearly 14 weeks, which made it a little easier for me to go back to work at 12.  Ugh.  That part was awful!  I don't expect any out of state family this time around until maybe early fall.

post #56 of 79

Courtney- Sorry you are having to deal with this stuff with your mom. Turn everything off and enjoy the rest of the night. There is always tomorrow.

 

Crazy stories- Ever since DH and I got together he said we would have a little girl with strawberry blonde hair (he has auburn hair and I am blonde). Well he was right on the gender and lately he has been dreaming of her with strawberry blonde hair and brown eyes. So we will see.... But he and his whole family (DSS included) see and sense things that I don't or rarely do. DSS's room is where my uncle passed of cancer in 2008 and he complains about once every two months about "the man with the beard" who is in his room and keeps him awake, wanting to play toys. It would of course be my uncle (we built this house and he is the only person to have passed in it) and it really ok. I couldn't think of a more wonderful, sweet, benign spirit that I would want around other than my big, burly, amazing uncle (can you tell I miss him? winky.gif).

 

Zuzu- Congrats! I can't wait to hear how you and your family are doing!!! So wonderful!

 

AFM: I went into the hospital last night and was kept overnight. I have strep throat and then I caught the nasty sickness with stuff coming out both ends that DH and DSS had earlier in the week. Which of course meant that I was severely dehydrated from vomitting and the cramps were so bad, I just called my midwife and she told me to come in. We get there and I was pretty bad. She said she was glad I came in. So three bags of fluid, two shots of promethazine, constant monitoring of the baby and for contractions, and now I am home. It was soooo great to get a shower! Now of course I have just done all the shopping for my part of the food for my own baby shower. My best friend who organized it and bought the cake and other good stuff (games, tablecloths, made salads, etc) will be here at 9 am tomorrow. Baby shower is at 2 pm and I am ready for it to be over.... I just can't believe out of all the family I have, no one but my best friends are offering to help. Well and one awesome SIL, thank goodness! But it will be over soon and then I can concentrate on school and finishing her room. Paint is on the walls in her room, now  just some touch up and we are going to hopefully get the new carpet in there next week or the week after. 

 

I did have my mw appt on Monday, but was too sick to post. She is head down, anterior, weighs 4 lbs 11 oz and literally kicked the transducer on the ultrasound so we got an awesome view of baby foot. lol.gif I am 33 weeks, measuring 35 weeks. I submitted my birth plan to my midwife and she approved and thought it looked great, suggested that I bring extra copies when we come to the hospital and put the one that she had in her chart. So yay!

 

Also, I was in Labor and Delivery all last night and this morning and let me say, the nurses are awesome! These ladies were sweet and checked on me non stop. I hate that I had to get fluids but I  bet that these ladies will take great care of Eleanor and I. Two of them were even discussing how they were glad that I was opting for no pain meds or IV. They said that in their births and the ones they had witnessed, things just went smoother that way. 

 

I hope everyone has a great weekend and I will check back in tomorrow. 

post #57 of 79

Kate- i will try, I'm not friends with everyone but for the ones I am .

 

I don't feel like I am getting my period.

The Baby IS LOW though. driving in generally uncomfortable b/c I have to sit up straight and it sort of pinches things near my hips and forget about it if I have to turn around and look behind the vehicle while I am backing up. yesterday it felt like she was dive bombing my cervix repeatedly, I thought she might break out.

 

cseky- that's kind of crazy that you are buying your own food for you baby shower.

as for you being sick, holy heck that doesn't sound fun, glad the nurse's were all nice though. I hope you are able to get some rest.

 

I had a photo shoot yesterday with my friend who is opening a photography business (and is really good already!), I have already seen 2 photos and they look great. I can't wait to see more. Then Sunday I have my mother blessing and they are going to henna my belly, I am super excited about it. Saturday is our cleaning day so nothing much going on today but I am really starting to savor my days at home with the family even if we are cleaning.  Which is funny b/c I used to bitch at Hubs all the time that I wanted us to go do something as a family, like a free festival or something, I didn't want to just be at the house.  He wanted to just be at the  house. Of course back then he (like today still) was always gone working and hardly got to be at the house and I was always at the house, unlike today where I am always running from one place or another on errands, playdates, school stuff, appointments, driving my mom around, etc. (although I would still like to go to the occasional free festival or celebration but now I won't do it as the only adult Hubs would have to come and he doesn't like that stuff but I lost a kid at one before and find it overwhelming to try to keep track of all 3 in such large crowds, so it has to be something smaller like a library program or an the Sunday farmers market in our neighborhood)

 

 


Edited by Thursday Girl - 3/3/12 at 11:09am
post #58 of 79

cseky:  Glad you are feeling better but sorry that you were in the hospital.  I hope you have a good time at your shower. 

 

justkate:  Yes I am seeing him every week.  I will see him next Thursday instead of Friday as that will be his last day at the current practice.  On Friday he starts at the new practice, that I will be following him at.  I tried to schedule my appts for March 16 & 23 at the new one but they needed to get an order from him first and will call me back to set it up.  On the 23rd I will have another US to check on the size of the baby.  I am not having the weekly US anymore as we already know what the cervix looks like.  He just does an internal check every week to make sure it has not changed.  I am really hoping that I can keep this baby in until 37wks and the baby is measuring over 8pounds as then I will be able to have a c-section.  I am extremely nervous about doing another vaginal birth with what happened with DS. 

 

Good luck everyone and take care.

post #59 of 79
Congrats zuzu!! Can't wait to hear all about it!
post #60 of 79

Congrats Zuzu!!  I can't wait to hear all the details and see a pic of your little guy!  I guess we need a "Baby Arrivals" thread of some kind now. 

 

Courtney - I'm sorry to hear about your mom.  That has got to be hard to worry about right now.  I hope it all turns out as well as possible.

 

Cseky- wow, I'm glad you are feeling better now! 

 

I am visiting my parents right now in my hometown, and I've been here for the past week enjoying some relaxation.  One of my cousins was due with her first baby on February 29th so I was crossing my fingers that my visit might just coincide with the little one's arrival, and hurray it did!  He came a couple of days early, and his was the first successful homebirth in the extended family.  woot!  I got to visit yesterday and help out with a little breast-feeding advice, and he's such a cutie.  It makes me want my little guy to come already.  LOL

I'm 34 weeks today and the little one has been super active in there the past few days.  I feel a bit like he's trying to break out Alien-style with lots of rolls and stretches.  Overall I'm feeling good, but my back really starts to bug me if I'm on my feet for any significant time.  I'm feeling pretty huge too.  Many of my maternity tops aren't fitting me so well these days so I picked up a few from a second hand store and ended up with XL sizes... at my normal size I'm a Medium/Large so either maternity clothes really aren't designed for late pregnancy or "all out in front" carriers or I don't know what! shrug.gif

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