They told me at my ultrasound that mine is anterior also. I also have a lot of abdominal fat, so that's a couple of strikes against me being able to feel much. I would be surprised if DH ever gets to feel the kicks from the outside.
I feel movement every day to varying degrees, but it feels indistinct, mostly like a feeling of pressure and maybe a squirmy feeling. I can see where this is stressful for moms (I'm 21w with my first) because they tell you to get into kick counts and all that stuff, and to worry if you can't feel the baby moving, but I really can't feel much most of the time. Sometimes, because of the way it feels, I wonder if I'm feeling Braxton-Hicks contractions instead of movement. It's so hard to pick out anything definite.
ETA: I wish now that I had rented a Doppler. I think it would have helped put my mind at ease to be able to hear the heartbeat on occasions where I was worried that I hadn't felt anything in a while.