Hey everyone, thanks for all the good wishes. We thought we were prepared for the news; we shouldn't have expected anything else with that low beta, but we were still praying for a miracle. We're both pretty devastated. What surprises me is how angry I am; SO many people get pregnant at the drop of a hat, and then this happens to us. I'm probably not going to be around much for the next few days.
We're going to try again this cycle. Hopefully, we'll have better news next month.
I do have a question, and if anyone know the answer I'd be grateful. They said this wasn't likely to happen again even though I have PCOS, but if it did, would that mean there's something wrong with my eggs and we would need IVF?
Sorry there's no personals. I don't have the energy right now.
I'm sorry again :( I don't know the stats...but I do have my own experiences. I had 3 miscarriages before DD - there was nothing "wrong" with me. My pregnancy with DD was amazing with no complications at all. There is no reason to think you can't have a perfectly healthy pregnancy after an early m/c. There are so many stats out there...m/c are VERY common...especially early ones. Also, if it's any consolation, it is believed that you are extra fertile right after a m/c so your odds are ever better. Take care and heal well.