Tomorrow is my best friend's stagette party. I have been feeling AWEFUL (pukey/tired). I have not told friends & family I'm expecting yet, and really feel that she may be upset with the news as she has been trying for over 2 years to conceive with no success and hubby and I just started trying in December. I am not worried about showing or anything for her day because I will be only a few months along.
1) How do I get away with not drinking at the stagette without spilling the beans and hurting feelings?
2) Her wedding is the end of April - should I tell her before?
I am supposed to be in another wedding in August - this is 2.5 months before my edd, so I should be alright to be stand for her (I have already called the dress shop and got them to re-order two sizes up so I can alter it to fit)
2) When would be appropriate to tell bride #2? And should I expect to be 'let go' from my bridesmaid duties?