Do any of you fear what will happen when your children turn 18? Do you worry that they will forget you as Mom and return to their biological family? I know that my case is different, as I adopted a teen and have a not good open adoption, but I often find myself worrying about when he turns 18 and whether he will put more stock into his relationship with her.
My big worry is because we will be moving at some point, across the country. There are more opportunities with moving for all of us, but it is very far from his biological family. He is fine with it, but I worry that later he will move back and leave me. I'm just not very confident in my role obviously, and he makes no hint that he would do that, I'm just insecure I guess.