Sorry to double-post; I've been wanting to come on here for so long but haven't been able to; I'm kind of playing catch-up, I guess. Sorry! 
We have a hard time with names. For our first, we had a short list of boy and girl names, but after he was born none of them fit. He went unnamed for 3 days; then "Jesse" came to me and we both liked it and its meaning, so Jesse it was. Funny, it had never even crossed our radar before he was born. My husband wanted to do James for a middle name, but I thought "Jesse James" might have been too much... We went with DHs middle name, Nathan. Our daughter was unnamed for a week, then my husband went along with Sylvia, which had come to me right before she was born. Lynn is her middle name; mine too. DH chose that; I wanted Jean or June.
Now? Who knows. We might find out the gender, if we can, I don't know. I would kind of like to experience both finding out the gender before and at birth. Anyway, surprisingly, we both like Lydia if it's a girl. But, is it too matchy/cutesy to have a Sylvia and a Lydia? Or are they similar more on paper than in practice? Her middle name might be LeighAnn (Not set on spelling), after my two sisters Katherine Ann, and Loraleigh. But do you think Leann/LeAnn/LeighAnn has too strong of a country connotation? It kind of does to me, and we are NOT country people. (We are building a house sort of in the country, and that's about it!) (No offense to anyone who is or loves all things country! It's just not us.) Otherwise June. (Also was my Grandma's middle name.) And all of our kids have/will have Murphy as a second middle name, it is my maiden name and I have it as a second middle name, now, too. Not that it's ever used, it's more for posterity.
It's always interesting to me to hear how and why parents choose the names they choose.
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