So I have been putting off starting this thread for months hoping either someone else would or I would move past it. But with the other threads discussing Braxton Hicks contractions after intimacy...I felt like someone in this group might have some thoughts to share.
Basically since the end of my "fertility window" when I got pregnant, I have had no interest in sex, whatsoever.
During the first trimester, I chalked this up to normal and that I'll get over it. But I had hopes for the 2nd trimester. A couple of posts in this group even talked about the "good times" they had and/or were looking forward to.
I remember during my last pregnancy I had a lot of anxiety about my breech baby that manifested itself into not wanting to be intimate at all and I can't really remember what my feelings were before then.
Honestly, I look forward to a bikini wax more than getting into bed at night. I don't have morning sickness or extreme aversions but every noise, smell and touch (other than regular massage) practically grosses me out. I have cried several times (during or right after) it bothers me so much.
My husband is occasionally "understanding" (but totally doesn't get it) but often annoyed. I know that while I am nursing, especially for the first few months, I won't be interested either so I feel like I'm better off trying to get over it for the rest of the pregnancy.
I am thinking of mentioning it at my next doctor's appt, but not sure if there is any point.