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About to start Temping- basics??

post #1 of 7
Thread Starter 

Hello All,


So I really thought we had it this month.. But AF just showed up so I have decided that instead of spending the money on HPTs I am going to buy a thermometer.


So the real basics of temping?

I know I have to wake up the same time everyday? I generally don't do that.. So is it ok that I wake up at say 630 am everyday and record my temp then go back to sleep if I don't have to be up that early?


Do I take the temps vaginally or orally?

When do we BD?


I know everyone will already have asked all this and I am sorry.. I just wanted to get some opinons..



post #2 of 7



I know I have to wake up the same time everyday?


-Yes, to get an accurate chart, you need to temp at the same time every morning, before you get out of bed. It's also important to temp after you've had at least 3 solid hours of sleep.


So is it ok that I wake up at say 630 am everyday and record my temp then go back to sleep if I don't have to be up that early?


-Yep, if you don't usually wake up for the day at the same time, setting your alarm for a specific time, temping, and then going back to sleep is fine. As long as you've been asleep for at least 3 hours before your alarm goes off. 


Do I take the temps vaginally or orally?


-Either way is fine, you just need to be consistent for your entire chart. Vaginal temps tend to be slightly higher, but as long as you are temping the same way each day, you'll get an accurate picture of what is going on. A basal body thermometer is recommended, since they generally give you a more accurate reading by displaying two decimal places instead of one. For example, you'll get a reading of 97.82 with a basal thermometer, versus just 97.8 with a regular one. 



When do we BD?


-In my opinion, the easiest way to chart is with an online charting tool, like the one available on www.FertilityFriend.com. You'll be able to track your temps, cervical fluid, cervical position, and any other symptoms you want to record. Because you temperature will only rise after you've ovulated, it is important to track cervical mucus and position as well so that you have a chance of BDing before ovulation. This article from Fertility Friend gives a great overview of BD timing. 


I'd also suggest picking up a copy of Taking Charge of Your Fertility. It's a rather long book, but you can skip over the sections that don't apply to you. It's full of great information about charting, including pictures of the different types of cervical fluid, and an overview of how to chart on paper if you'd rather do it that way. 


Good luck!





post #3 of 7

Oh- you can also see an example of a Fertility Friend chart if you click on the link in my signature. 

post #4 of 7
Thread Starter 
Great!! Thank you so much!!!

That's exactly what I was looking for!
So I think this first cycle of temping I will also use my OPKs too to see if they line up, as well of course as charting CM... Does that sound like the right way to do it?
And then just BD every second day or so?

Thank you again!!!! joy.gif
post #5 of 7

Here are the charting basics...


Start as soon as you can since the first day of red blood is cycle day 1.  Pick up a copy of Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler at the library (or buy it).  You don't need to read it cover to cover to get started, but it really is an excellent resource.


You can pick up a basal body thermometer (BBT) at your local drug store.  Some are better than others.  I prefer ones that take longer than 30 seconds (they seem more accurate to me) and can hold two temperatures in memory (this is especially handy when you wake up, temp, and go back to sleep- you can look at and record the temp later).  The Walgreens thermometer gets generally bad reviews.  BD gets good reviews. 


When temping you want to focus on a few things: taking it at the same time each morning (within 30 minutes); taking it after a solid block of sleep (3 hours is usually recommended); and making sure that you don't get out of bed, sit up, drink water, or fall asleep before or while temping.  So basically you just wake up, roll over, temp, and go back to sleep or get up. 


Some women are really sensitive to changes in sleep patterns or ambient temperature (like if your room is hot one morning and not the next or you wake up snuggled under a warm blanket and the next are out of the covers).  But other women find that they can see their pattern despite numerous night wakings, not getting a 3 hour block of sleep prior to temping, or environmental changes.  Other things that can affect temp- pretty much the same things that can delay ovulation: travel, stress, diet changes, injury, illness, and strenuous exercise.


Next, cervical fluid (CF) is something you can observe throughout the day- whenever you feel it, whenever you see it (while wiping, on your panties), etc.  Here is my general guide to CF:


Dry: you'll feel dry all day and there is nothing on your panties

Sticky: you'll generally feel dry and there will be a bit of staining- usually yellow- on your panties.  It might be a bit crumbly or clumpy.

Creamy: generally you'll feel a little wet, lotiony in texture, could be slippery when you wipe, often it will stand up on your panties

Wet: you'll feel wet and your panties will likely be wet- maybe even soak through, may look like skim milk (I rarely get this)

Eggwhite: you might actually feel it slipping out of you throughout the day and it might fall out of you while using the bathroom, stretchy- it may stretch from you to the TP for several inches- and usually clear or yellow tinted, often quite profuse


Temp and CF are the two basic fertility signs you need to chart.  There are other signs you can record like cervical position (CP), but it's not necessary unless your temps and CF are not showing a clear pattern.


So what you're going to see is a group of low temps from the start of AF, which is cycle day 1 (CD 1) until the day after ovulation (O) when you should see a spike in temp or steady climb to a higher group of temps.  The days between O and AF are called your luteal phase (LP).  Generally it is said that you need at least 10 days to sustain a pregnancy.  The average length is 12-14 days.  Your LP will not vary much- usually just by one or two days cycle to cycle.  But your O day could vary considerably.  So when you see O on your chart you can then predict when AF should show based on your average LP length.  If you go 3 days past your longest LP length then that is an excellent sign of pregnancy.  If you get 18 high temps after O that is 99% accurate- just like an HPT.


Likewise your CF will go from dry just after AF to sticky, to creamy, to EW as O approaches.  You may or may not go through all the different types of CF prior to O or you could skip from dry to creamy or dry to EW.  You might have many days of creamy and one or two of EW or you might have 3 or 4 days of EW with hardly any creamy.  It all depends on the woman and that particular cycle.  But after O you will dry up.  It could be instantaneous- like the day of the spike you're dry.  Or it could decrease slower- EW to creamy to stick to dry.  But usually you will dry up within a few days and then may or may not experience a few more days of creamy or even wet/EW later in your LP, just prior to AF.


Anyway, that should get you started!  Post if you have questions and use www.fertilityfriend.com to share your chart!  Good luck!

post #6 of 7
Thread Starter 

And does it matter which thermometer I use?

Obviously I will buy one specifically made for BBT, but does it have to be 2 decimal places or just one???


Thank you sooo much to both of you! I have been on FF for 2/3 months now but have decided temping really will be best for me :)

post #7 of 7

You really only need the tenths place, but I like having 2 decimal places.   I also think it's very helpful for it to store more than one temp.

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