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post #21 of 32

I am so sorry to hear of this! :( Hang in there!!!

post #22 of 32

I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart is aching for you. And I'm sorry your hospital experience was uncomfortable - I wish you had been treated with more compassion. 

post #23 of 32

There are many people thinking of you tonight. I am one of them. I am so deeply sorry for your profound loss. There is a forum section devoted to your situation, and when you are ready, you may find some solace there. 

post #24 of 32

My heart is breaking here tonight reading this.  I can't imagine what you're experiencing and how badly you're hurting.  You are close in my thoughts and near to my heart as you grieve.

post #25 of 32

You have my deepest sympathy... I am so sorry your journey ended like this and I wish you peace and healing. I hope you can find the support and closure you need when you are ready for it.

It just isn't fair.



post #26 of 32

TheByr: Oh my friend. I am sobbing right now. I am so sorry. There are never any words for this that make you feel even the tiniest inkling of better. Please just keep some faith going... you are beautiful and awesome, and you will be happy again. You absolutely will. So many hugs and lots of positive thoughts coming your way. Xo.

post #27 of 32

I've come into this thread a few times, Thebyr to give my heartfelt condolences.... they seem so lacking though. Words, while mighty powerful, are nothing in the face of loss. I do want you to know that I am thinking of you often, I'm sending as much love and healing as I can muster your way. I wish that you are able to embrace your grief wholly and be gentle with yourself, Again, lots of love from me to you... lifting you up. (((hugs)))

post #28 of 32

I am so sorry you had this hard experience. We'll miss you.

post #29 of 32
Thread Starter 

Thank you ladies so much for your thoughts, energy and warmth. I appreciate each of you more than you know.

post #30 of 32



There just really aren't words - especially because of the callousness of the 'professionals' you dealt with. I am glad you were at least able to see and hold your little one, but I am so sad that you couldn't keep her. Your family will be in my prayers.


And I second the suggestion of visiting the Pregnancy & Birth Loss forum here, if and when you are ready. There are other mamas there who have been through similar situations, losing their babies around the same time in their pregnancy as your precious little girl.


Hugs and prayers to you.

post #31 of 32

Theybr, I'm so sad and so sorry for your loss.  I've grown to know you over these few months and thought about you often.  Words mean so little.  But it's all I have.  I'm so sorry.

post #32 of 32

Oh Thebyr, I am so so sorry... there are just no words that can express my sympathy and condolences for you and your DH.  My heart grieves for you.  Please hang on and be strong, peace will find you.  Sending you lots of love and hugs.... you will be missed here.

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