This was a rough weekend for my husband and I. We fought a lot and I think he's having a really hard time coming to terms with the pregnancy. He's mourning his youth a lot (we're having our first later in life; he's going to be 37 in May) and dreading the sacrifices that we'll have to make for a child. I think he's also resenting me for being so tired all the time and not wanting to go out much. I also have next to no libido and he's sexually frustrated.
All this is making me feel really alone in this and intensely guilty for being so exhausted all the time. It's not like this was a surprise, we've been trying for a year and he's been on board the whole time. Now, all of a sudden it feels like this is a big burden to him and while intellectually, I know that partners have a harder time connecting, emotionally, it's really been hard for me.
I've tried to keep him involved in everything. He goes to my doctor's appointments with me and he even went to a cloth diapering class last weekend! He said it wasn't nearly as boring as he expected! But there's still this tension between us and it's really starting to stress me out. Does anyone have any advice on how to get him more involved or help him deal with the pregnancy better?