my 16 year old is about to freak out bc i want to meet the adults at a bonfire she wants to go to. it's at her boyfriend's cousin's house. now she's saying she just won't go instead of me just meeting the people. this is causing the warning bell to go off in my head bc we've had sneaking/lying issues before. how typical is it to meet the parents/adults in this type situation? how do you handle these types of situations like a bonfire where you do not know anyone except your teenager and her boyfriend you've met once? my 15 year old has had 2 boyfriends and we met their parents. she said it was awkward but no big deal.