Hope I don't miss anyone, I've not looked back too far.
Debhoura: I'm so sorry you've had a horrid week. Nothing to offer but virtual
Deportivo: Welcome. I'm so sorry you're having a difficult time with this. Although I haven't had a miscardige I feel in a very similar postition. My SIL in pregant and must have got pregant exactly at the time I had my faIled IVF. They didn't tell me with any senstivity. Luckily MIL is being very senstive. It is hard there are no two ways about it. I sometimes feel very bitter too. I'm really impressed with you buying baby things, wish I had the guts to do that. As for what to do there is no magic answer. I really try and avoid pregant women as much as possible. Although it's very hard I try to tell people that I find it hard. I haven't told everyone I'm trying again so if they don't know I'll say something like "dh and I were on the IVF waiting list when he died and I find it hard to be around pregant women". I most defintly wouldn't go to a baby shower if your not pregant. Thankfully this is something we are spared in Britian. So I hope there is some comfort in knowing that many of struggle with the same thing.
rcr: glad your working your way towards some new treatment. Hope the time passes fast till your next appoinmnet.
Hope: thats an amazing number of eggs and fertilization! Got everything crossed for you.
Saphrons: congrats on your twins.
Praying: congrats on the heart beat!
Blue and Aura: hope your both well. Blue your on meds for your next FET is that right? Hope it goes well.
AFM: Spent this weekend ill with another tummy bug. Why do I only seem to get well for a couple of days at a time? Anyway just keeping very busy till my next appoinmnet so apologies if I'm not about much. Made some vegan oreos today which were nice but not really fiddly to make. Wish I could by them here! Got some more accupture yesturday which helped me feel better. My accupturist is v good and very knowlegable about IVF.