I apologize if this is in the wrong forum. They should create a marriage section!
My situation is very different. My DH was abused mentally and physically by his mother. That is now affecting his relationship with me. We are having the SAME argument at the worst time. Right when I'm going to sleep is when he wants to "talk." It's the same he feel's lonely in our marriage, doesn't feel I'm making any effort, and brings up divorce often. I know he has issues emotionally accepting my love but I am getting to the point that I can't take it anymore. I don't know what to do and have no one I can talk to about this. I've tried everything to be more affectionate more attentive have more sex. Nothing works telling him I love him, or asking him if he's feeling loved/lonely does nothing. I'm done with this vicious cycle I can't take it anymore. I feel like a freakin zombie since I'm sleep deprived.