I joined a church, among other reasons, for a safe, low-key place to meet a guy. Oops. The congregation is mostly over 60. Maybe someone has a son or nephew?
I am mostly a sahm and when I do work, I clean houses, so not likely to bump into someone that way.
I joined okcupid for a second and it was a disaster. First, it was so much work to get a profile in decent shape. I had a few guys contact me. One was someone I had a date with last summer and in no uncertain terms told him at that time I was not interested in seeing him again. He thought maybe time had warmed my heart, which it has not. Another guy told me he liked to have at least three sexual relationships going on at once. Sounds fun, not what I'm into. Third guy was so obviously not compatable with me in any way. I deleted my account.
So, how do I meet people? My friends don't know any single guys that would be make a good match. I'm done with bars. I don't have much time or energy to put into this but I would like to have a date to events, see someone once a week casually, for fun. Not for getting married next week but not like an adult friendfinder thing either.