Dh just sprung on me that he has a scout camp out planned the weekend of April 20, which is 11 days before my due date. He says I agreed to it a couple weeks ago. There is no way on earth I would have agreed to that, and seeing as hearing the info this morning immediately sprung tears in my eyes how can he think that? He says it's a nearby canyon (about 45 min. away) and that he's gotten cell reception there before. I am concerned because the reception may be spotty and he may be so preoccupied with the scouts and the noise level there that he may not hear the phone if I call. Given this is baby number 4, I don't expect labor to be that long either. Would you be ok with this scenario? I am really upset and he doesn't get it.
He just texted me that he will get someone to cover for him (after guilt tripping me). I just don't think I can agree to this but I don't need his resentment either. uggghhh How can he not understand that booking an overnighter that close to my due date is sure to stress me out and even if chances are small, there IS a chance he could miss his sons birth. How can he think that is even ok to take that risk??