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post #1 of 19
3/27/12 at 9:00pm
Thread Starter 

 

Miscarrying. :( I'm sort of ok-ish, it's easier to cope with than the miscarriage I had in 2005. I think that's just because it's developmentally at a different stage and that's what I'm focusing on. It helps me get through, somehow, I guess.
I was surprised by the pregnancy in the first place, but so excited! This sucks.

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post #2 of 19
3/27/12 at 9:57pm

I'm sorry :(

post #3 of 19
3/28/12 at 3:21am

Wow, I'm so sorry! What a roller coaster ride - I keep thinking about the possibility of losing this LO and even though it was completely unplanned and a not entirely convenient surprise, losing this baby now would leave such a big hole in our lives already... I hope you'll cope well. hugs!

post #4 of 19
3/28/12 at 6:42am

Oh no.  I'm so so sorry.  Hope you heal quickly mama.  Sending warm thoughts.

post #5 of 19
3/28/12 at 9:39am

I really am sorry for you and your family.  

post #6 of 19
3/28/12 at 10:14am

I am so sorry, mama. 

post #7 of 19
3/28/12 at 10:24am

I am so sorry.. sending all my love your way... I hope you recover quickly - you're in my thoughts xoxo

post #8 of 19
3/28/12 at 11:14am

I am so sorry. Sending healing thoughts your way.

post #9 of 19
3/28/12 at 11:39am
I'm so sorry! Hugs and healing to you.
post #10 of 19
3/28/12 at 2:37pm

I'm so sorry! grouphug.gif

post #11 of 19
3/28/12 at 3:04pm

:( So sorry to hear this. hug.gif

post #12 of 19
3/28/12 at 4:35pm

I am sorry too.  Big hug to you.

post #13 of 19
3/29/12 at 12:36pm
Thread Starter 

Thanks, ladies. I'm doing ok. Kind of sad, but it's not nearly as traumatizing and devastating to me as it was last time. I'm doing pretty well, which I'm really glad about and surprised. 

post #14 of 19
3/29/12 at 4:40pm

Happy to hear you are doing ok. smile.gif

post #15 of 19
3/30/12 at 5:19pm
Thread Starter 

Thanks. :) I really think it's the mass of support I'm getting this time around. Last time I got NOTHING. I had 2 women from my old congregation come visit and a few times people expressed condolences, but this time I have an entire group of women who are calling, coming by, taking my kids for the day, whatever I needed. I'm so much better off this time. I have my bad moments, usually at home at the end of the night, and I sleep with a stuffed animal (yes, at 34 yrs old lol), but during the day I do ok as long as I'm busy. It's so different than last time.

post #16 of 19
3/30/12 at 5:29pm

I'm so sorry for your loss.

post #17 of 19
3/30/12 at 9:46pm

So sorry for your loss

post #18 of 19
3/31/12 at 8:53pm

I am so very sorry. Losing a baby is one of the hardest things mamas can ever do. Healing and peace to you.

 

post #19 of 19
4/1/12 at 1:29am
Thread Starter 

Thank you all so much. :)

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