Part of me wants my dc, both 4, to make their own decisions about their friends. But up to now, most of their friends have been my friends' children, and I acknowledge that I want to make decisions for them until they are older.
The oldest neighbor is 6, she's nice, follows her mom's directions, helpful to the kids etc. The son is 5 and pretty wild. He sneaks over when his mom tells him to stay in their yard, won't go back until I tell him 10 times, rides dc's bikes and scooters w/o permission or supervision. He's rough and doesn't go with the rules of the yard - keep sand and dirt in respective area, stop riding equipment when asked etc.
IDK< this is my first neighbor kid situation. I need advice on how to handle neighbors when they're not being nice or blatenly going against parental direction.