I know how frustrated you feel Mrs. T,
After reading everybody's posts, I have now come to realize that my daughter is attached to me and that I am not alone. I did not have terrible twos. I had the horrible 3s and 4s happen to seem to be better. I am home more often now and am learning how to manage my temper and how to redirect my daughter's temper. Now I am coming to a point of establishing chores like picking up after herself and making her bed (with some assistance) before being able to go outside or to our sunroom play area. The problem has to do with getting her to do these things. Some days are easy and some days are extremely difficult. To the point of not allowing her to play with her toys for a period of time because she would not pick them up.